Why are some people so passive aggresive?

[overlord337645]

had my first ever experience with someone passive agressive and now i feel like i was led on completely played and used to build a girls ego (no i do not mean girls specifically i am just refrenceing one)

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background this girl continuously made me feel like she enjoyed the attention i gave her for 4 months straight mabie im bad at reading signals but ussually smileing talking to your freinds in a happy way about me and your freinds teasing you about me is not a bad sign or at last last i checked?

[douglas_1170]

If you were lead on a played, it's because you allowed yourself to be. At some point, you showed that girl that you're a weak bitch and she lost all respect for you. You became her bitch because that's the only weapon she has. So, I'm curious. What did you do to deserve this? Tell her you love her or some lame crap like that?

[overlord337645]

actually no i looked in her direction one time and she smiles at me and waved so i continued and she continued then after 4 months she told me to stop cause it was uncomftorble...

[NoDecision]

Wait, so you didn't ask her out, you just looked at her in all that time? I can see why that would be kind of weird to her. Of course, even more so if she were married or had a boyfriend... or girlfriend.

[NicholasRedone]

Let's sympathise for them in their shoes a second - not everyone got everything they wanted if they had a list ☺️😁

[NoDecision]

It can be part of an antisocial personality disorder. They don't mix well with people so can get a bit feisty when frustrated. It is not always personal.

[GlowUpGirly5]

They're not passive aggressive they just don't want you yet you wouldn't take a hint

[overlord337645]

the hint of smileing at me or her best freind saying thank you for her and giveing me a candy bar?

[GlowUpGirly5]

It's called being nice they don't like u. Learn social cues. You're too old to be this dense and learn how to spell

[overlord337645]

all of my freinds are girls due to boys never wanting to hang with me so i read them pretty well
considering...

[overlord337645]

also social cues are not natural for everyone

[GlowUpGirly5]

Well they don't like u get over it

[overlord337645]

i dont want them to i wanna know why people do this and i feel like im being told you should know this...

[GlowUpGirly5]

I already told u !! R u slow?

[Anonymous]

What happened?