Search Results: how to flirt and ask a guy out

How do you know if someone is flirting?

There's this guy at work. I dont know if he likes me or is just being friendly. I had to ask him a work question on Friday, he had to look at my screen & he was leaning really close to me. In the morning & night he has to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, How do I handle these types of guys?

Like guys who are rugged and manly. I met this guy recently, he is tall, muscular, aggressive, and takes no crap. He is into outdoor stuff and hiking, and also knows how to fight. I don't look like a model but he has...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is this guy who im now reconnecting with from my teenage years being overbearing when planning "our potential future"?

Me and this guy had a special connection when we were 16, then carried again when we were 19. Once he moved away, we met new people and stopped talking for years. We are now 27, and reconnected a year after we broke off...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I like a guy. He owns a suprette so I shop there everyday. Is that desperate?

There's a guy who owns a little market in my neighborhood. We have a nice vibe going. I could shop elshwehere but I go to his shop because he's cute and we always laugh, smile and flirt a bit. There's tension but it's all...

DermalPunch

Explorer Age: 42

What is the smoothest way to ask a guy if he is single and what are the best ways to flirt with him?

So there is this guy in my club who constantly looks at me and we have recently started to share short conversations during club meetings and he has joined me and my friend for dinner a couple times. I have a crush on him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I DM him after 2 weeks of ghosting?

We're just in the talking stage, we've been DMing for more than a month. I'm in my late twenties and he's in his thirties. I enjoyed talking to him, especially about deep topics, and I could tell he enjoyed talking to me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If you asked a guy this…?

If you said to your male friend who is kid of flirting with you to pop in and for a coffee and he texts you back ‘coffee?’ What does he mean?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does asking a guy if he has a girlfriend reveal my interest in him, or are guys even too slow to catch on to that?

Over the last few days on here, guys have been telling me that guys are slow to pick up on signs a girl is flirting. If I've learned correctly, just the one question alone won't signal she wants to go out with him, but...

Bethany22

Influencer Age: 31

Can I flirt by asking a guy for help, or is asking for help something that only strengthens relationships after being with a guy for a while?

Like can I ask a guy for car rides, since I don't have a car, in order to demonstrate my dependence on him? or should I wait for him to offer me a ride when I say that I was recently thinking of needing to go to the same...

Bethany22

Influencer Age: 31

Keep getting rejected by guys I thought would definitely go for me?

I’m a somewhat attractive woman who is well educated with a decent job and goor personality. In the past two years I’ve put myself out twice and asked out men for coffee who were older than I am and not conventionally...

newgirlontheblack

Xper 4 Age: 35

Can I get some advice on dating a male INTP (30)?

I am an INFJ female and I asked this guy out for coffee about a month ago and he said that he was busy because a friend was coming over to spend the weekend. He’d already shown interest before, but the next time we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does he panic when he thinks something is wrong and tries to impress me?

I've known this guy for a while but we live a few hours away from each other and don't see each other often. We lost touch a while ago because he felt there was no need for us to be in touch as often as we were, so I cut...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What would be the reason why someone stopped touching me?

So this guy and I are friends... and coworkers. He has become very physically affectionate and comfortable with me 6 months ago and it continued being so till maybe a month ago. Everything started with small accidental...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What if your guy friend says "you smell good" and asks you about it? and tells you not to stop using the product?

Is it flirting or just a compliment

Anonymous

(18-24)

My guy friend say he is gay but he flirts with me a lot, ask me out often, say I am beautiful. Why?

Deimy

Xper 7 Age: 27

I want to be under a guys leadership/headship/control /mental control. How do I deserve this?

I’ve had times where guys who wouldn’t ask me out just flirted would make me feel I was their little object. I look back and this is what I like and miss. I want marriage but I guess this is the next available best thing...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does a man think if I started being playfully mad at him?

I really was mad cause I thought he should ask me out and was leading me on. But today I realized he does a lot of the things to me also to guys and girls at work so either He’s flirting with everyone male and female and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Poll: What percentage of men who flirt with you never ask you out?

Just asking because for me most of the ones that flirt on and on for weeks or months or even years never do anything to make it serious. What do these guys get out of playing with women’s minds? Seems like a complete...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Just asking because for me most of the ones that flirt on and on for weeks or months or even years never do anything to make it serious. What do these guys get out of playing with

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