I want to be under a guys leadership/headship/control /mental control. How do I deserve this?

[Anonymous]

I’ve had times where guys who wouldn’t ask me out just flirted would make me feel I was their little object. I look back and this is what I like and miss. I want marriage but I guess this is the next available best thing since I’m not good enough to ask out or marry for a guy like that who wants to rule over me or a woman.

[Guy13]

Are you talking about one to take you under their wing in a relational ownership.

One of the cultural dom/sub arrangement or Read my mind and handle it like most women?

[Asker]

I described in op. Not sure what the difference is to what I described.

[Guy13]

Yeah, I read it but trying to detail and make practical it a little more.

[Asker]

I don’t want any dim sub agreement. I just want to be under a man mentally and be treated like his object/ pet. Everyone knows it’s my personality to be subservient and that I’m weak and soft. I used to be called sidekick. It’s just how I am.

[Guy13]

I see. I know a girl kind like that but she likes taken care of as nicely ruled. One of those "Daddy" girls.

[Asker]

I want a father figure in a man too.

[Jdjfjcjj]

Well they should be ruling over you. If you found the right guy, then generally women naturally allow them to lead. If you fell like he's ruling it's because you don't respect and/or trust in his abilities.

[Jdjfjcjj]

Oops, I meant they shouldn't be ruling over you. It should be natural for you to follow without them demanding

[Anonymous]

Good luck. We've been taught that for us to exert any kind of control or influence over a woman is evil. Even stating that a man is the head of his household is met with scorn.

[Asker]

I’m traditional no need to worry. I’m very subservient.

[Opinion Owner]

I've met a lot of women who claim that. They were only traditional when it came to the man's role and responsibilities. When it was time to fulfill their own traditional role, they suddenly turned modern, strong, and independent. After a while, you give up on it and just take care of business on your own.

[Opinion Owner]

@Ifotbybgnfnf Nobody was talking to you.

[Jdjfjcjj]

@Ifotbybgnfnf look for my response, it's the only answer you need

[Anonymous]

wow you're sick in the head. talk about taking submissiveness to a whole new level

[boggboss]

How do u deserve what

[Asker]

Being under a guy again. One guy used to be really over me mentally. He was easily able to read my emotions.

[In_Trance]

Nobody deserves anything