It’s hard for me to admit this (actually it’s not): I like when a man controls me and takes charge over me. Why?

[Bomek]

I been with guys who wanted to dress me as in chose my clothes like as if I was their Barbie doll. One talked to me like his daughter. He scolded me. Another controlled my food intake. When he stopped I missed it!

I love being controlled by a man.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Yes, why?
The first testimonies of this behaviour I've seen are coming from GaG. I can't know if it's a US thing or if it exists elsewhere as a taboo I've never heard of. For this kind of alienation to happen it needs, logically, two persons seeing abuse as something positive. Aside from brainwashing, or a chain of previous abuses, I don't understand how someone could want to have their lives falling under dictatorship when we're talking about relationship.

[normalice]

A strong man can be strong for you so you don't have to be. Plus to be controlled so thoroughly is to have someone paying more attention to you than they are to themselves, which really means you're controlling them in a way..

[SweetPi]

Honestly sometimes this is fun and exciting and others it's more just abuse and you not wanting to choose for yourself.

My ex was strict and fun that way. But there was a line and sometimes I miss it but more happy now.

Also much better bed time and sleeping. My special things are better then he ever tried to be.

[Nikki1989]

It is either a bizarre fetish or you are just a feeble person.

[Decoded93]

It’s a kink, it doesn’t necessarily stimulate you erotically but it does mentally and emotionally

[Reijen]

You have your kinks. We all do.

[Bomek]

No it’s my personality. This ain’t about sex. Although maybe it’s foreplay. But I also feel depressed and unhappy when I’m not controlled by a man everyday.

[Reijen]

There you go, part of your personality then. Maybe stuff from your past.

[Bomek]

Is this something guys find kinky when they control a woman everyday? Or it’s just their personality? Or both?

[Reijen]

Could be both. A man who is normally dominant in all aspects of his life, including sexuality.

[Bomek]

That’s great

[Reijen]

Quite.