Why do some men ask me out but it’s way to soon. Meanwhile other men flirt on for months or years and don’t ask me out,?

[Dkeitnbtt]

It’s sad cause I generally say ‘I don’t know yet’ when guys ask me out way too soon. Meanwhile guys lead me on via flirting on and on and I’m just wondering what the hold up is but knowing i would likely say yes.

it’s ironic.

[WaterIsland]

I think this is just a reflection of how people are all different. Everyone has different perspectives and opinions. I don’t think there is any reason beyond that. Some people are more outgoing and brave when it comes to that, others are more shy and reserved. Same with girls too.

[Anonymous]

Some guys are go-getters, some like to play it safe, some are total pussies, and some know how to play it just right

[Dkeitnbtt]

To add on to that, it has nothing to do with how young or typically/conventionally sexy they are either. I also know a guy who I’ve heard asked out every damn girl in the place (he just asked me out after our first real convo) and it was just way too soon. I can’t really say yes lol. So it’s interesting to see every guy asks out millions of girls, one, or none and then some ask way too soon (guaranteed no from me generally) or way too late.

[Opinion Owner]

Yep that's for sure. It all depends on who we are. You're right it has nothing to do with looks or age
I would say experience matters though. Successful experience that is

[Dkeitnbtt]

I don't know. Every girl rejected him but he asked me out lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Poor guy lol. Maybe one day a girl will say yes. Or maybe one day he'll learn to stop asking them out too soon. I'm not betting on either

[Dkeitnbtt]

This is why arranged marriages are awesome.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol!

[Opinion Owner]

Oh by the way, do you wanna go out with me,

[Dkeitnbtt]

Lol way too soon buddy

[Opinion Owner]

Ahh ok 😔

(Dammit I did it again. Stupid!)

[OlderAndWiser]

How long do you think you should wait before accepting a date with a guy?