Search Results: if you text a girl first

It's just platonic right, I'm not overthinking it?

So last year I lived in a dorm and there was this guy who was my "elevator buddy" because we would see each other in the halls basically every day but we only shared a few sentences to each other each time. Nothing like a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

How do I get closure on all this stuff that’s happened between us?

A girl got promoted and came back to my job and was in charge. We slowly started talking more and I found her annoying at first. She knew about my boy friend and I’ve mentioned we used to argue a lot and I think...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

Break Up & Divorce

Girls, why is my Ex girlfriend reaching out to me 2 weeks after cheating and breaking up with me?

Hi, so I have this situation: My ex-girlfriend cheated on me and broke my heart on Valentine's Day 2023. I immediately went No Contact and started ignoring her at work, on social media, etc. Now she's been reaching out to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Was she in love with me or did she actually really hate me?

There’s a girl I met about 2 years ago. She got a promotion and came back to my job and was in charge. We slowly started talking more and I found her annoying at first. She knew about my boy friend and I’ve mentioned...

Anonymous

(25-29)

She's still texting me but no longer makes an effort to go out?

should i let her go? at first she was showing so much interest to hang out and she even complained that we were trying to make plans for a month but we couldnt. we were texting often. Two weeks ago we hanged out and now...

chicosuave

Xper 6 Age: 30

Why does she act so hot and cold?

I'm best friends with my ex. When we began to officially date she began acting odd. The closer we got and the more we began enjoying time together, the more she would push me away and be cold. I took the decision to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you think my friends with benefits is getting feelings?

I never text him first he always reaches out and has general conversations with me, I then always turn the chat sexual so we don’t cross boundaries. Sometimes I won’t reply to him and he will always double text. He’s...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I give him a chance? Or did he blow it? (Ran out of space for details, but what do you think I should do)?

Been seeing this guy for a week. We fell hard for each other. Like in love too quick. Feelings we both haven’t had in a very long time. it was 9 years ago when I first fell in love, but that one was passionate. This one...

RavenWing057

Xper 4 Age: 33

He liked me and another girl? Was I in the right to leave?

Been with this guy only for a few months. We aren't dating but there was some potential. He met a girl two weeks ago and told me he had been getting to know her. Not to date but to get to know her. He tells me all the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

He blocked me after getting my stuff back? why?

I've been trying to get my apple watch back from the longest from my boyfriend now ex. He had his own and asked if he could use mine for a day for work. He has one of the older ones, I have the newer. His was broken he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, Girlfriend started playing a who texts who first game?

Me and a girl was talking online for no the throughout the covid-19 lockdown. We originally planned to meet but we didn't follow through with it because we was both busy and tensions from covid-19. I stopped talking to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

How do you deal with a 5 year break up? Please read this all, do you think he is abusive too?

I’ve been with this man for 5 years. He meant everything to me and I really did love him. However we had this fight back in December over something extremely stupid. Seems like he resented me for it. Very strange though...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why do I choose men who dont choose me, advice on guy?

I've noticed I have this pattern of choosing friends and potential lovers. Recently I stopped contact with a guy I met in December. I was the only 1 initiating texts to say hello and I asked him to hang 1 on 1 two times....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is this normal?

is this normal I’ve been dating a guy for eight months. We previously dated 5 years in highschool. We decided to get back together and give it another shot after college. He’s very independent. Doesn’t like...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should a girl confess a guy first?

this guy stares ar me and is always around me i tried stalking another guy today to get this guy out of my mind and i saw him discussing about it with his friend so i felt i can ask him out it has been a complete year and...

oksaly

Xper 2 Age: 23

I'm so confused about whether he ever loved me or not?

Deep down I tell myself someone that loves you wouldn't have done what they've done. Like looking at half naked women and saving photos to look at later or lying about messaging people (supposedly because I was doing it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I just stop trying with women?

There’s something that’s just starting to annoy me. Girls giving their numbers or social media and not texting back. I don’t have too many close friends because I now live in a pretty isolated area, far from where I grew...

blissinanarchy1

Xper 7 Age: 27

Why would a girl avoid being straight forward with a guy?

I met a girl and I expressed to her that I wanted to get to know her, i mentioned that if she wasn’t interested that it was all good and to take it as a compliment that I found her attractive. She said she would really...

Anonymous

(25-29)