Been seeing this guy for a week. We fell hard for each other. Like in love too quick. Feelings we both haven’t had in a very long time. it was 9 years ago when I first fell in love, but that one was passionate. This one feels like being in peace&heaven. He feels the same,&it scares us, as we’ve only just met and can’t explain the feelings we’re both having.
It’s like he’s a male version of me, even spiritually.&how alike we are is even weirder. Him&I know I’m an intuitive person, sometimes things just pop up for me…
He had an appointment today.&I woke up a little later, saw his iPad right next to me. I was honestly just curious. I put in the password to my phone onto his iPad…. it unlocked.
Even our passwords are the same…I couldn’t believe it.
He sent a text at 8:45AM to another girl, inviting her over tonight. While I was still asleep in his bed. My heart beated so fast, I was shaky, and so hurt.
I confronted him when he came back. It was a calm conversation. He admitted to it. I asked “is she an escort?” He said just no, friends with benefits. Him not knowing I actually tried escorting for a month a couple years ago, I was going through some shit, only took 2 clients. He said that our connection really scares him, and he felt like he needed to distance himself. That it’s no problem for him to stop being casual with others for me. I said I have to think about it.
About an hour later, I ask him again if she’s an escort. He said yes. An escort that turned to friends with benefits. He felt bad about lying and apologized. He said he wants to continue this with me, as long as I want to. And that it’s going to really suck if I decided not to. The connection we have is beyond weird, unlike anything we’ve had.&the thing is, he has erectile dysfunction. He didn’t tell me, but he pulled a cock ring out one time&it’s obvious he has issues in that area. I haven’t even came yet. I like him so much, I was willing to work through that.
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Another girl…. stop writing there next time… Later to this one.
Can you explain what you mean by “stop writing there next time”? I don’t understand what you mean by that
You’re saying I should go?
He’s saying that you need to ditch this guy. It’s obvious that he’s using you. I’m sorry xo
Whether he blew it or not is up to you. We can't decide that for you.
If you're ok with him screwing other girls while he's seeing you, then keep seeing him.
He sounds like a lying scum bag to me, telling you what you wanna hear to get you off his back. I highly doubt he'll stop seeing this other girl. Especially if you forgive him for it