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TheLovelyWoman
Xper 6 Age: 42 How does an avoidant ex boyfriend really feel after a breakup?
My Now ex broke up with me less than three weeks ago and i saw he followed girls that i didn’t want him to follow prior in the relationship and i know he’s technically single but im supposed to go see him in a week and...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is he losing interest or just busy if he suddenly stopped texting me?
why is he all the sudden not textng me? it wasn't much on Sunday because he was with his cousins and I knew he was at work Monday and now its been over a day and no response and just yesterday he said he was probably...
Anonymous
(18-24) She gave me her number and invited me out—interested or just friendly?
Girl at work gave me her number and invited me out this coming weekend to hang out with her friends…does this make any difference or is she just being friendly? I’ve been getting mixed signals…
Anonymous
(30-35) She disappeared for months with no contact—should I welcome her back?
i haven't seen her since the end of last summer , i'm not entirely sure why she has been nowhere to be seen since. usually during the summer i'd see her at bars here and this place where she worked. i'm wondering if she...
Anonymous
(36-45) There’s been talk of privatizing the TSA, and I agree. Do you?
The whole concept of a government shutdown is beyond stupid. Congress can’t pass a budget to save their life, so just agree on a fucking continuing resolution and move on. I think it’s criminal to expect federal workers...
strawberryapple
Xper 6 Age: 27 Coworker keeps saying she likes my name—am I overthinking this?
Girl i kind of like that I know from work says my name a lot but today told me she likes my name out of the blue? Am I reading too much in to it?
Anonymous
(25-29) Why is my friend pushing me toward another guy when she knows I like someone else?
I've known her for quite some time and I had always thought that she genuinely wishes my well. However, some of her recent behaviors are making me question her intentions. So, there's a guy and we kinda like each other....
Anonymous
(18-24) Do you agree with my theory that Barbados is the most developed soveign black nation because they don't have victim mentality?
It still ranks 40 something, which is lower than countries domimated by other races, but much higher than other black majority countries. I visited in 2015, and I watch those fuckers build a sandals resort and road in...
KostasKouvalis
Master Age: 27 How do I choose which book outline to write first when I have 15?
I have 15 book outlines and I can't decide which one to work on first, I used to have 600 book ideas but I narrowed it down to my best 15 book outlines. I hope I don't waste too much time debating between ideas and trying...
Would my idea for school choice work?
The schools would both be paid for by tax dollars. Red School Focus *Reading *Writing *Math *Science *Computer & AI *Intro To Trades *Spanish Blue School Focus *Creative Pronouns *DEI 101 *Critical Race Theory *Mostly...
strawberryapple
Xper 6 Age: 27 Why are debates fun with some people but toxic and draining with others?
I've been arguing with a guy who acted SUPER INTERESTED but then would pick fights, cool things off and come back again full throttle. In the end it became difficult to mention pretty much anything bc he was very...
Why does my struggling single mom still pressure me to have kids?
While I love my mom dearly, there are things with her I just cannot get straight with. I (20f) barely have my life together. Had an ED for four years straight and I am just figuring myself out in this world per say...
Sunglassesx11
Xper 2 Age: 21 The Erosion of Classical Music in the 21st Century
Frustratingly, there are too many “pop” performers encroaching on the domain of legitimate classical music, to the point where people don't understand or appreciate the difference between "showy" and a truly accomplished...
u Is it only men that can truly love?
A woman couldn’t really date a guy that worked at McDonald’s or didn’t earn money unless he’s in college. A man’s career and money are so important. Not to mention women put a lot of emphasis on things a man actually...
Anonymous
(25-29) What is one surprisingly powerful piece of advice that truly worked for you?
Mike Murdoch said, what you respect, you will attract, what you don’t respect, will move away from you. A black doctor said on social media you only need one thing to succeed at your job, which is you have to love it...
Is it a red flag if a guy watches hallmark movies?
I used to have a professor who worked in television and he was always comparing things to hallmark movies because "my wife makes me watch them" And if I guess he felt like we didn't believe him he'd go, maybe some of you...
Dina_Melissa19
Xper 6 Age: 29 If you work an office job, what’s an absolute necessity for you at your desk?
For me: - Kleenex - Disinfecting wipes - pens - sticky notes - water
jazzy34
Guru Age: 36 Am I a weak man for crying at a stressful fast-food job and leaving?
I've been working at mcdonalds for over a month now. I already have an anxiety disorder, and this job pushes me to the brink. Yesterday they had me work from 10am-6pm. They had me work second window like usual. Its where...
Joe917
Xper 4 Age: 34 