Search Results: how to flirt and ask a guy out

Was he obviously trying to flirt with me?

So I was at my phone store today trying to get an upgrade for my phone. I walked in and there was one guy who was going to help me but he was leaving so he sent someone else to help me. The guy who came in to eventually...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Yesterday I asked about why guys like to jumpscare girls and most said it was just immature. Is it still a sign of flirting?

I get that it is quite juvenile, maybe funny the first time. Could it be a type of flirting that a guy wants to see a girl scared so he can weirdly feel like he is the protector after or am I overthinking 😭

Lalalove11

Xper 6 Age: 26

If a guy says ‘take care of yourself’ does he have feelings for me?

So I've reconnected with this guy I used to know and study with recently after he moved interstate. He doesn’t initiate many messages but responds so quickly, I was worried he didn’t want to talk to me so I asked him but...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Is this guy into talking to me or not if he said this?

I’ve been reconnecting with this guy I used to know and study with recently after he moved interstate. He doesn’t initiate many messages but responds so quickly, I was worried he didn’t want to talk to me so I asked him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is my guy friend mean to me out of nowhere?

We’ve always had a complicated friendship. He’s always been friendly and he also flirts with me. Anything from holding my hand, telling me we should go out sometime, telling me he actually thinks I’m cute, etc. He’s also...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, I'm friends with this guy (17) and we have been flirting for two weeks now but I don't know if it means anything to him. What do I do? (I'm 17)?

Is this flirted or am I seeing things. This all started on our church trip (Friday). I was hugging everyone I always hug, and he asked me why I didn't hug him too, so I hugged him. It was a little weird at first and I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Does he like me?

Hi, i’ve had this crush on this guy for over a year and have known each other for 3 years. but lately he’s been joking with me. asking to hang out (i assume as a joke) and i always say no. but he can also be very nice and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How can I not fall any deeper?

So there's this guy. He keeps flirting with me and if I ask him why he does that, he just would tell me to chill like the other girl friends that we have. There are times when I try to flirt back (but I really suck at it...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Did I mess really bad with the job and with him or am I being way too dramatic and it's not a big deal?

Long story short, we flirted, he was excited, seemed to like me a lot but we were both on vacation. When we came back he asked me out, I said no, wasn’t in the mood. We started flirting again after a while, he didn’t ask...

Zavarakatranemia

Xper 3 Age: 37

Why does he act like he is not hurt when I believe he is?

So here is the thing... The guy that I work with upsets me with his humor sometimes... he has always said that it's never meant to offend me, but I got offended many times. We share close relationship, we flirt with each...

Bpet22

Xper 5 Age: 30

Girls, Have you ever felt an immediate attraction to a man and how did you deal with it?

I went to a beach gathering with friends and there was this guy there. He was tall, strong, great physique, brave and the most manly man there. We flirted a bit and he said he wanted to do a body shot on me and I said...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Was he laughing at me or flirting?

I was driving around normally with my friend (the guy I like)& he randomly looked at me for a little bit then looked down and started chuckling to himself i asked him what? And he responded saying nothing, he just thinks...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What is it like to have all boys’ attention?

My friend recently told me about one girl from her school. She talked about a girl, she is 16 years old and she is very pretty. She said that this girl have all the attention from boys. When she goes out of the classroom...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys, we spoke in call for hours but he now ignore me in text?

a guy from my uni gave me request on insta , he texted me few days ago. we go to same class once a week. But he said he has never seen me. Then he asked for my numer. he called me late at night we talked for about 2...

Lovelydove13

Xper 2 Age: 21

Do you think he is just using me to feel better about his break up?

I am friends with this guy and we just started chatting and hanging out together again after a while of no contact. I value him as a friend but I've always had a soft spot for him. Back when I was in high school I had a...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How do I communicate this to men?

I’ve been exploring a few dating apps. The thing is, I’ve never been on a date before. I prefer befriending a guy platonically first and then seeing if I have enough romantic interest in him to agree to a date. This is...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Did I get ghosted?

Mr I met on a dating app called me last night and we spoke for an hour. It was respectful, a bit of flirting, and just generally getting to know each other. I personally enjoyed it. It’s now the end of the next...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Have I blown it? Feeling very guilty?

This guy (30M) and I (30F) have been texting nonstop for 3 weeks straight. Last week we went on 2 dates, 5+ hours each, lots of hand holding, laughing, good conversation, joking about our “future houses/holidays/pets” etc...

Gemini90

Xper 1 Age: 34