Did I get ghosted?

[Anonymous]

Mr I met on a dating app called me last night and we spoke for an hour. It was respectful, a bit of flirting, and just generally getting to know each other.

I personally enjoyed it.

It’s now the end of the next day, and he hasn’t texted me or anything.

Have I been ghosted?

Context (if you haven’t seen my previous questions):
I met a guy through a dating app about a week ago.

We’ve been sending voice notes here and there. He asked for my number and I gave it to him.

Slow texts so I suggested he calls me and he agreed to.

Updates

+1 y

He eventually texted me to ask how I was. I texted back and still no reply…. I think it’s my turn to ghost him lol

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+1 y

Guys should I just get arranged marriage this point 😭😭😭

[TonyMetal___86]

😂😂

Miss alyssa rapunzel you made me laugh!

Already told you about dating apps and also you are aware of such sites and how they behave...

You will find the one when you least expect it, no harm trying here and there but what's meant for you is going to happen sooner or later!

Are there still arranged marriages? 🤣

[Asker]

😂😂😂😂😂 glad I made you laugh

[TonyMetal___86]

😊👍🏻

[RealMarek]

It seems odd to hear nothing the whole day after you spoke. It’s not that hard to just send a quick text saying he enjoyed the conversation and is busy today. Seems off… perhaps some kind of mind game. If you don’t want to deal with this, it’s okay to find a guy who is more your speed when it comes to communication.

[AmeerX]

Try using muzz. com

It's a dating/marriage app.

You can find proper people for dating.

And it's your call to ghost him. May be he did have some issue he genuinely was dealing with?

[Asker]

I give up at this point lol all these men are gonna treat me the same

[AmeerX]

No, they are not. Please don't think this way :). I believe you are kind person from the way you converse at least and you really deserve someone who will love you for that. What you are trying to find is someone who you will love. There is a difference. You can really find a good guy but not through Tinder apps or something like that.

You can find lots of serious guys on marriage agencies and proper marriage related apps. Don't give up Alyssa 👍

[Asker]

Aw thank you

[Hallix26]

I have several friends who take days to reply, it can be relatively common.

[Asker]

Friends is alright…but it shows no effort when you’re getting to know someone for a relationship

[Hallix26]

That's a fair point. Still, it's always rocky with online based courting. I prefer irl for that!

[Asker]

Definitely! Ideally we would talk for a max of 2 weeks and then go on a date. But at this rate I don’t think the date is happening any time soon. A lot of men waste time like that and it’s silly at their age!!!

[Hallix26]

I can feel your frustration and I'm sorry that it's difficult. My advice remains to expand on your normal dating circle. Try new types of men.

[Asker]

Thanks!!! 😊❤️

[Hallix26]

Welcome!

[JPresidente]

I’d say give him more time.

[Asker]

3 days good?

[JPresidente]

Yeah. Could be work, just busy or a slow play attempt. After that then you may wanna move on.

[Asker]

Thanks. Whats a slow play attempt?

[JPresidente]

Means he might have someone else he is talking to and you could be 2nd or 3rd in line as a possibility so he slow plays you until he knows of the option he prefers ahead of you pans out.

[Asker]

I should be talking to other people too

[JPresidente]

Oh yeah I don’t anything wrong with talking to one or two other guys in the early stages.

[Anonymous]

The guys you meet on dating apps have hundreds of options in their inbox.

[Alex8736]

and the saga continues...

[Asker]

Yup :/
He called me as he said he would. We talked and it was very good. Next day…nothing.

[Alex8736]

your parents going to arrange the marriage? 😇

[Asker]

My parents don’t know anyone to do it 😂😂😂😂

[Asker]

I was joking by the way

[Alex8736]

i know sweetie 😊

[Part2603]

OMG NO!!!

Calm the fuck down.

[es20490446e]

Meet in person.