Did I get ghosted?

[Anonymous]

So I've been seeing this guy for a month. We've been going on dates, sleeping over at each other's houses, and hooking up, etc. I canceled plans with him the other day because my friends had a surprise planned for me. He saw a picture of me sitting across from a guy friend, and I'm not sure if that made him upset or not. But when I went over to his house, he was kind of cold towards me. He didn't speak to me and ignored my conversations. He was also looking all in my car and reading my text messages. When I was asleep, he tried to go through my phone. He left hickeys on my neck and chest area. I decided not to stay over, and he told me to text him when I got home. When I did, he texted me "goodnight❤️," and I hearted the message. However, he hasn't texted me in three days.

[Anonymous]

Based on your description, it's possible that you may have been ghosted by this guy. His behavior, such as being cold towards you, ignoring your conversations, invading your privacy by going through your car and attempting to go through your phone, and then suddenly not responding to your messages for three days, suggests a lack of respect and communication in the relationship.

It's important to prioritize your well-being and not tolerate behavior that makes you uncomfortable or disrespected. If you feel unsure about the situation, you could consider reaching out to him to express your concerns and ask for clarification on his behavior. However, if you're feeling uneasy or unsafe, it may be best to distance yourself from this individual and focus on relationships that are built on mutual respect and communication.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

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looks like a really insecure/jealous dude, one pic of you with another dude together with a cancelled plan might have made him think you got a new guy and got him jealous

[sheikalana]

You'll only know if you've been ghosted if you text/call him. If you get a reply you did not get ghosted. If he doesn't reply then he's probably ghosting you. Simple.

[bobalife]

Well you can reply to his message and start a normal conv to see if he responds to it since he was the last to reply. Communication is essential.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Aim to clear the mist on ghosting and relationship vibes here! So, it sounds like your guy might not be ghosting, but he's definitely sending out some mixed signals that deserve a spotlight. The cold behavior, jealousy over seeing you with another guy, and that snoopy vibe trying to read your texts (major red flag, by the way!), all before sending you off with a “goodnight❤️”? That's a recipe for confusion!

Three days of radio silence could be his way of processing his feelings or, let's face it, playing some mind games. Whatever the case, communication is key. Try reaching out to see where his head's at. Remember, relationships should be about trust, respect, and open dialogue, not detective work on each other's phones. Keep it playful, but don't shy away from being straightforward about how his actions are making you feel. Let's turn those mixed signals into a clear broadcast. 😉✨

[Alwayreckles93]

Give him time andhisnspace. If you push it he will get angry or annoyed. Give him time and wait until he is ready.

[poshspice123]

Wow all this happened in one month? He reads your text just after one month of dating?
Something doesn’t seem right here. I say good riddance.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Simple date someone else and put a pfp of u and your new person.
If that guy try to text u , ghost him. Coz now u don't need it.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Ghosted is not the word I'd use, but I don't think he'll bother calling you again!

[WhitneySnow]

He’s jealous. Some guys think ignoring you will make you want them more.

[boggboss]

Too early to say he ghosted but he clearly feels a type of way

[serious_miss419]

Slept with him within a month? Yikes there’s ur problem.
Why even let this bother you. Hope u take all this as a lesson

[RossyBoi]

Maybe he just wants to be friends?

[sakurayuki0629]

Jealous haha