Dating

If things don't work out, would you rather get ghosted or friendzoned?

The "dead lights" (if you are familiar with IT) or the "friend zone" is in my opinion the worst insult a man can take from a woman. It's emasculating, damages your self-esteem and hurts your reputation. It makes you question yourself and your confidence. It makes you more bitter and less likely to take chances with other women.

Ghosting is second place, although it's horrible at least your are not being tortured. Just my thoughts.

Over the years I've gotten a lot better at avoiding the friend zone. If I like a girl I make my intentions clear early. She either responds or she doesn't. However if I feel she is friend zoning me I learned to just outright ignore her. I don't get friend zoned anymore, but instead I get ghosted when things don't work out. It still sucks but it's a lesser of two evils in my opinion.
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by the way when I say "friend zone" I talk about a situation where on person still has feelings and then other does not. And the person who does NOT have feelings KNOWS the other person DOES have feelings but still keeps them as "friends". The friendship is NOT officially agreed upon. That is a formal definition of a "friend zone".
If things don't work out, would you rather get ghosted or friendzoned?
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