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I’ve dated a girl when I was younger who said to never get too big. Sometimes I really have a hard time believing that there is such thing as being too big. Where am I even supposed to know where the line is at. I don’t even workout now anymore. Just work hard. It’s almost like it’s just meant to mess with me. But I do respect it. She said that after I sent a pic of mainly flexing my shoulders though. But initial question. Can arms ever be too big. Met a new girl who compliments my arms as well as my ex did. My first thought is “damn what if I get them to be bigger than?” “How much better could I be”. And I don’t mind it at all. I come from hardworking and athletic up bringing and everything else. Not much genetic I don’t think. Just embedded to take care of myself. I’m really not a gym rat. I actually hate gyms because there’s always a little weirdo critiquing your every move. Made my mind up to have a full home gym set up to ever be dedicated to working out again. But you never know. I know the whole science behind working out and everything. Like the tricep is really like a third of your arm. It’ll make your whole arm and biceps look bigger by training them. Just looking to continue to grow an evolve but needs to be directed in the right direction in this point of my life.

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I absolutely LOVE heading to LA Fitness. My favorite kind of movies are romantic and bromantic comedies, and also some dramas; I'm accepting of a few thrillers, too. I LOVE ALL kinds of music, especially from the 1980s to 2000s.

First date: Panda Express with thai tea and boba — HELLA FREAKING BOMB ASS MEAL, BITCH!

Second date: Mediterranean, Arab or Armenian cuisine with sarma and tabouleh. SHIT YEAH!! If you're vegan or vegetarian I'll order your ass HELLA sarma, tabouleh AND some freaking turnip pickles and grilled steak tomatoes on the side babe!

When I have a first date, it is usually a result of an online meeting through a dating site. We have each seen a few pictures of each other, exchanged a few DMs, and usually spoken on the phone once or twice (although I occasionally "meet" a woman who wants to proceed directly from DM to meeting for dinner.

She's looking at me, forming impressions, and by the end of that first date, she knows whether she wants there to be a second date. I'm doing the same thing, of course.

One of the things I look at is how she is dressed. A first date for me is almost always dinner at a very nice restaurant. I look at whether she is dressed appropriately for the place, and whether she has obviously put effort into making herself look as nice as possible. She doesn't need to be wearing the latest designer fashions to look nice and she doesn't need to have spent $100+ preparing for a date (new dress, new shoes, etc.); I just want to see that she made an effort because that tells me that she treated this occasion as important.

Do you form impressions based on how your date is dressed? How important is his or her appearance on a first date?