Guys, what besides bad personality or poor hygiene, would make a woman "undateable" in your eyes?

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I hear so many new, relatively young women on this site, complain that "they can't find a man, no matter what" and I just roll my eyes. We are living in the damn Age of Simps, where soyboys (male feminists), simp men on OnlyFans, and literal cuckolds, are a common thing in Western society. Men have never been weaker and more submissive to women than they are right now.  What the HELL are these women complaining about that they "can't find someone to date them." other than they're entitled and that their standards are ridiculously high? (Not that a single woman will ever admit it.) It's so annoying to see on here, because most men know that these women are just dating Chads and getting pumped-and-dumped by them, but then complaining that "they can't find a man" while ignoring 99% of decent men out there who aren't a 9 out of 10 in looks! So Men of GAG... What in a woman, *besides* bad hygiene or just simply being an awful person, would her "undateable" to you? Cause men don't ask for much.

Avicenna · Accepted Answer

1) Having kids
2) Having significant health problems
3) Being obese
4) Having significant financial problems
5) Being a big spender (and expecting me to be the same)
6) Having substance abuse issues
7) Having no common interests or hobbies

LogicBomber · Accepted Answer

- Feminist fake victim mentality - A slutty past - A lack of dignity (dressing like a whore in public or online for cheap sexual attention) - Entitlement and insane expectations

Desconhecida · Answer

" Cause men don't ask for much"  LOL 😂😂

Heartache0405 · Answer

Today’s women my age in general are undatable to me personally. They’re too selfish. They want to see men fail so that they can succeed instead of succeeding together. They’re also far too oblivious to all of the ways in which they could cheat either intentionally or unintentionally and expect their partner to keep them around anyway. As if the men they want to be with are the types who just can’t respect themselves enough to do what’s best for themselves. It’s always about the woman. Happy wife happy life. I hate that phrase with a burning passion. Why should only the wife be happy? Does it insinuate that men will always be happy because they have a woman and as long as said woman is happy that’s all they should ever want? Even if said woman doesn’t do shit for him? When she should be? I see too many married couples arguing and otherwise going at it. Those men don’t seem happy. It’s too difficult to keep a woman happy anyway. Especially today’s women. I must have been born in the wrong era...

Ask_me_anything91 · Answer

I don't know if this has been mentioned yet. But girls sharing things with their friends or Sisters that we only shared with you and you only. I have had personal experience with this and I have seen just about every female who I've heard talk to their female friend or sisters
(Sincerely not an exaggeration). I'll tell my girlfriend something very personal, EXTREMELY PERSONAL in fact things you don't want anyone else to know besides the person you decided to trust. But EVERY SINGLE TIME again no exaggeration I end up finding out soon after or at the end of a relationship that my girlfriend told her friend what I told her. Also EVERY SINGLE ONE of my girlfriend's friends, Sisters and even in a couple cases Mothers knew how big my dick was, how long I lasted, how many orgasms I've gave her when I went down on her, how I would lick her butt hole, how sexy I moaned and groaned and growled when I would cum, how far I could shoot my cum, how much cum I would shoot out etc etc etc. I mean not only did every one of my GFs friends, sisters and one time Mother knew sexual things about me but I mean VERY VERY DETAILED sexual things about me. Also some of the things I've heard other girls asking the others after one of them hooked up with a new guy I couldn't believe it. From that day on I knew that it was a myth perpetuated by women that men were always talking amongst each other about the women they slept with. Yes guys will say things such as "Oh yeah she's hot we hooked up one night and she had a great ass, tits, body, pussy etc or she gave great head" but nothing and I do mean NOTHING compared to the questions, answers and details I've heard these women share with each other.

Mangospacho · Answer

At the age of 19, Maggie Geha raised $33,000 to help a 5-year old cancer patient receive treatment since her family could not afford it. Unfortunately, the 5-year old didn’t make it so the $33,000 wasn’t used for the treatment. Maggie, instead, took those funds and went on a shopping spree and spent thousands on new clothes, shoes, and even went to Cancun using the donations. But the real story is that cancer patient never actually existed. Maggie fabricated the entire story so her naive friends would give her the money and she had planned this elaborate scheme from the start. That would make Maggie Geha undateable.

CaptainOverthink · Answer

- Frankly, obesity turns me off. I won't go there.
- In my country it is the norm that there are no stay-at-home-partners. Although it do occur. So naturally---TLDR--> we split everything where practically possible. I'm not a bank and we're in it together. Team mentality.
- They're not screenzombies. When I am with them I want to have their attention, don't put your phone between us.
- Don't expect me to be a screenzombie. I have a life with work and hobbies, I won't respond to text instantly because I am not an AI.
- They try to control me with shame-tactics.

Exterminatore · Answer

You are right about the soy boy thing. After years of campaigning to sissify men, feminists got their way. So did the average women who stood idly by and did nothing knowing men have been stripped of their voice. Your average woman loves to point the finger at feminists for this, but the reality is to a certain extent they were complicit as they wanted more controllable men. What they got as a result is emasculated men.

As for the pump and dump that’s just women sewing their oats so to speak. Men do it to.

Additional disqualifiers: overweight, uses drugs or drinks heavily often, poor or no morals, generally irresponsible, boorish, anti social features to their personality, there are other things but this is a good enough start.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

A woman is absolutely undateable in my eyes:
1. Who smokes, drinks, or uses drugs.
2. Who is morbidly obese or emaciated.
3. Who is not a Christian.
4. Who is not a natural born and fully heterosexual adult female.
5. Who tattoos or pierces her body.
6. Who wears thongs or the like.
7. Who seeks anal, oral, or period sex.
8. Who supports abortion.
9. Who has an SO or is not completely over the ex (this includes women with a high 'body count', recent divorcees or widows, and single mothers).

Kaamraj · Answer

It took me some years to realize this but a woman who for whatever reason doesn't put in any effort. I'm not even talking about 50-50 but not even 10% of the effort. Men should not peruse such relationships. Because even if she agrees to a relationship, you're going to tire yourself out for even an iota of appreciation or understanding. The looks are simply not worth it.

Looks, yes, you should not be visibly overweight, a little bit men will compromise with. Kids are a big factor as many men are now realizing that kids greatly complicate the matter.

JustiReno · Answer

Honestly bro it was never like this, you ever seen the way a player talks to his girls? He lies to them. It’s just like a guy who beats his wife probably tells her he loves her 10x more. Honestly I think you’d be surprised what Chad and Tyrone have to put up with for a bitch, why you think there is a culture of bro day? because that girl sooo annoying they were only ever tryna get some pussy and you need time to vent and be yourself around somebody sheesh lying to your girl all day

but to answer your question I don’t like liars, if I can’t find a bitch who transform into a 🐉 I at least better find someone who love me like Ciara:

Lionman95 · Answer

For me the biggest issue a woman that has a controlling way of handling things meaning she has to be there in every part of my life no matter what I do she has to be there.
I hate people that feel like they can´t trust anyone and therefore have to kind of stalk you just to be sure that you don´t talk badly about them or that you cheat on them.

gfedcba · Answer

Smartwatches, and to an extent phones - I have limited time in this existence, and am not interested in splitting attention/competing with a computer 24/7... I'd rather be alone.

For reference, I have a desktop at home & an Android phone with a 2.5 inch screen - clock, GPS, phone, Mp3, and no text notifications - only way to get it to ring is to call... can't find a woman who isn't "on" 24/7... a woman who carries her phone in her hand, or wears a smartwatch (unless periodically for work, etc.) is an INSTANT turn off & no from me, as I want a real connection.

globetrotter22 · Answer

That too meme with the woman saying she is “so lonely” while rejecting dozens of good men is so fitting.

The problem is that culture has brainwashed many women into thinking victimhood = merit. For some reason some women get so off when they have people feel sorry for them. They have to CREATE their own problems and drama to accomplish this crap and typical through identity politics.

Кураж · Answer

Lots of things, I don't think it's productive to date someone who doesn't meet my standards and expectations from the get-go.

I'm only interested in someone I can see myself spending the rest of my life with at this point, so the elimination process is pretty strict.

FriendlyDrugDealer · Answer

Smokes and has a strong attachment to social media. I have no problem with social media but if they feel like they need to document everything in our life then I’m not with it

exitseven · Answer

If she took no interest in her appearance. I know this sounds shallow but if somebody does not care enough to look presentable to somebody else then they probably do not care very much about the relationship.

GlassTop · Answer

Usually having kids/smoker/alcoholics are 3 biggest automatic nopes.
some others are 1) mentally special/retarded (this is very common)
2) Extremist in any sense
3) Had more than 3-5 partners/3-some/1-nighters
4) Addicted to anything
5) Bad with money
6) Dirty/doesn’t clean room (unless hard worker)
7) any STDs
8) Loser jobs (influencer/photographer/actor/etc.)

Valso · Answer

First and foremost: religiousness! That's a clear indication for mental issues, so definitely a "NO".
Also, being commanding and controlling every aspect of the man's life, including who to meet with or what to wear. Years ago I had a relationship with such a woman which lasted about 12 days before I told her "goodbye".
And thirdly, makeup abuse. Women who wear too much makeup to make themselves look like a plastic doll - thanks but no, thanks!

Daniela1982 · Answer

With heels on Maggie will be 4 inches taller than you. So I imagine for you she is not datable.

Fuentes · Answer

Has over 9 bodies Rude Lacks common sense Stupid Can't hold a conversation Nothing in common SJW  Has more then one kid Has a bad dating history Dated felons in the past Thinks reality tv is real

Moose304 · Answer

Smoking, tats, profanity every other word, meth teeth, orange hair, and constantly bringing up politics.

mark000h · Answer

Being shallow or selfish or being promiscuous is disqualifying for me.

chulo1992 · Answer

•Being unemployed and does not want to be employed  •Cigarette smokers •Overweight & sexually unattractive  •Loud & Rude •Argumentive  •Confrontational

n4meAL · Answer

every day i see debates between women and men in this group honestly i'm bored🤣. but there's also the advantage that they can get more exper , from questions that have a lot of debate in it.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I wouldn't date a woman who thought she was better than me. I tried that when I was 17, and the biitch cheated on me with my best friend. Never again!

RealMarek · Answer

Lack of mutual attraction, ideological possession, or addiction issues. Not much else.

docster · Answer

Smoker. Pro-abortion. Divorced. Heavy. Not a bible-believing Christian. Spendaholic.

molonski2 · Answer

Fat , Sloppy , horrendous attitude , uneducated , unemployed , low socio economic , foolish..

Pohjolan · Answer

If she is WAY too stupid, wants to sleep with other men, can't tolerate my dog, bad teeth, Aids, smokes or is a landwhale.

convo_king89 · Answer

If I see a chick light up cig. Nope she would stank

dolemite89 · Answer

she has kids cuz i don’t want kids. she’s an alcoholic, smokes cigarettes, doesn't smoke weed or isn't at least chill with it being around cuz i smoke, she can’t hold a job/can’t take care of herself

Reijen · Answer

Definite criteria for undateable to me would be if she didn't want kids. I've got the baby fever. I want those kids damnit!

tiajoka · Answer

Maybe it's cuz simps aren't men, lmao. I want a real man, not a bitch.

grierwrange · Answer

“men have never been weaker” what’s your basis For this claim

JesseJayNeak · Answer

A high body count.

Shy_Steve · Answer

If She is Rude or too Loud.

whistlingwh0res · Answer

trashy white women, ugly Asian, fat black women

shortster · Answer

Pets

Ayaan00001 · Answer

I love all women

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