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I can count the times on one hand I’ve had women apologize to me in romantic scenarios. In every one of these cases these women still wanted something from me (attention, relationship, sex, money, etc).

I’ve never had a woman apologize to me for doing something shitty/disrespectful after she lost interest. Never. In all of these scenarios she would try to gaslight me or give a pathetically fake apology just to posture and avoid guilt.

I have on the otherhand apologized if I was legitimately wrong to a woman w/ no agenda other than being a empathic to her feelings.

When I broke up with my last ex I acknowledged the horrible struggle she was going through (in her personal life and family) and how she deserved better. I told her I knew me breaking up was going hurt even more. However I also said I had my mind made up and I had to be honest.

I apologized about how the timing of it hurt even more (given her other problems). She wanted me to meet her family and I knew breaking up after that meeting then would only make everything worse.

But that didn’t mean I no longer respected her as person. I did genuinely care for her situation despite no longer wanting to date. That’s why I was respectful as I could be during the break up. I still respected her as a human being despite not wanting to date her anymore.

But from my experience women take their negative emotions via no longer being attracted to a guy as justification to treat him lower than pond scum.

Being sex-zoned means that someone only sees you from a sexual perspective. That for some reason, they think you are only good for sex, not for a friendship or anything else.

There is this thing that I hate about the men and women I come across, around 50% of the women I come across sex-zone me, and the other 50% of the women friend-zone me. As for men, straight men do not really like me, too much competition comes between us and it ruins the friendship. With bisexual and gay men, the only thing they want from me is sex.

This is very annoying to me, because I am not interested in friendships without sex, and I am not interested in sex without friendships. I need a strong emotional and physical bond with a friend, only after that do I feel like I am close enough to them. If I do not feel that level of closeness with them, then I am not able to trust them, and feel attached to them, which would lead to me moving on from the friendship sooner or later.

And I need some sort of an emotional bond with a person to be able to enjoy anything sexual with them, otherwise I cannot do it. Without an emotional bond, or mutual admiration of one or more personality traits at least, having sex with a person will feel like I am being raped, and/or that I am raping someone.