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I am 26, Aquarius, graphic designer, Filipino/German.
Been in 1st relationship from 15-20 years & 2nd from 20-25.
After breakup I signed up on tinder cuz I am a sexual person.
Met a guy there. He’s 21, Capricorn, Business Student, French/German.
He loves football, guitar, chess and karate.

Had first date at his place for three days by the end of April 2019.
We smoked & had such a great chemistry so we had Sex the first night. He was amazed by the Intensity. Probably because I am more experienced than him, what made it even more enjoyable for me.

The day after, we had casual conversations and he mentioned his “Belgian Girl” he fell in love with. & showed me his ex girlfriends on insta (Was that a strategy?) >stroked my ego and made me fall for him!

Haven’t chatted for a week after our date, then I initiated contact & since then we chat or have phone calls regularly.

He works with his boss on their startup in Africa until January 2020. Because I’m a Graphic Designer I started working for them what actually made up 90% of the contact and conversations.
He also offered me to rent his apartment while he isn’t here. So I moved in July 2019.
He visited me here for a week, because he had to repeat an exam. (I wasn’t the reason for his visit)
He brought me a souvenir bracelet (does it have a meaning?)

Got to know his roommate & she said he was “looking for a relationship but is a player and into taken girls.” His friends like me by the way.
When he and I chat, we never talk about sex. We actually became good friends and he trusts me (after this short time?)
He invited me to join him & his best friend to Africa in January (wouldn’t do that if he’s just into sex?)

Temporarily he’s in Hamburg (550 km away from my location) for three months before he goes back to Africa. He updated his Tinder profile. (Because I’m too far & he‘s too lazy?)
He has to pass by for three days by the end of December 2019, in order to repeat another exam.
He’ll move to France by June 2020 for 2 years.

Early/casual dating can be so ambiguous.

I’d love some suggestions/tips on how to communicate interest, find clarity of how he’s feeling about things, without coming on too strong.

Met a guy online. He suggested the first date which went brilliantly - lots in common, laughter, good conversation. It felt like we had great chemistry on all levels. He told me he enjoyed it at the end, we hugged, and parted.

He texted the next day to thank me for the date. I replied saying I’d like to do it again, then he agreed that he would too.
we kept messaging, but no mention of booking another date.
after almost 2 weeks, I asked him when he’d be free. He mentioned a time (his one day off in 8 days), so we booked that in.

We had our second date yesterday. The conversation still flowed well, we laughed a few times, and spoke about some deeper things, such as struggles at work etc. we’re both nurses, in high up roles with a lot of responsibility. so we just seemed to “get” each other.
I felt more nervous though, as I’m starting to like him a bit, and I was also sleep deprived, due to a poorly timed early morning phone call from work (which I did mention to him). So I felt like I wasn’t my best self yesterday, so was worried how I came across.
He also spoke about his family and friends, telling me their names, explaining who was who, and even showing me a photo or two. So he was sharing some personal things.
3.5 hours later, I ended the date.

Im not sure if he told me whether he had a nice time or not at the end of the date, as I was feeling a bit nervous, so my mind was buzzing a bit. But I did tell him that it was nice to see him again, which he also said back to me.
we hugged briefly, then he said “I’ll see you later”.

24 hours later, he hasn’t messaged me and I haven’t messaged him.

I enjoy his company, and would like to see him again. But I don’t want to come on too strong. I also want a bit of clarity.
So I need to say something.
Any tips/suggestions/advice?