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I don't condone cheating, I'm just curious how guys and girls will differ in opinions.

Would it hurt you more if your significant other slept with a bunch of people behind your back or if he/she finds a new partner to replace you with.

Let's see how good the people of GAG are. Here's a list of simple questions any morally decent person can do. How many of them do you pass?

1. Do you try to be a good person daily and help others in any small way you can?

2. Do you usually treat others, especially strangers, with respect (until they give you a reason not to)?

3. Do you try to understand other people's point of view at times, especially when you disagree with them? (Empathy)

4. Are you the type to stand up for essential freedom and speak out against evil, tyranny, and oppression of others, regardless which side of politics it comes from?

5. Do you positively contribute to society in any meaningful way? (Teacher, doctor, lawyer, nurse, assistant, donor to charity, etc.)

6. Are you a person with a clean lifestyle? (No smoking, vaping, drug abuse including marijuana, alcohol, gambling, etc.)

7. Are you a sexually clean person? (No promiscuity, no sleeping around, no STD's, no degeneracy like an al sex, rim jobs, etc)

8. Are you a decent partner or potential partner to others? (No hitting, no abuse, no insulting)

9. Are you monogamous and loyal to your partner or would-be partner? (No cheating, no disrespect)

10. Are you against the death or killing of others? (Whether that be by "Constitutionally-protected" firearms or pre-childbirth; I'm not getting into the political argument crap)

Note: Being religious or heterosexual/non-queer is not required to be a good person, but it may sometimes help, depending on the circumstance.

Let's just arbitrarily say, you need 7 or 8 of these to pass as a good, decent human being.
So... ARE YOU A GOOD PERSON OR NOT? (I'm option B, for what it's worth.)

And yes, I left anonymous opinions on, even though I know that's how all the trolls and jerks on GAG only ever respond. I guess I'm opening it for the good people, even if some cockroaches also slip in through the door.

Tbh most would just leave I’m asking out of curiosity for myself because my girlfriend of 2 years (21) is leaving for a job opportunity in a different province. I’ve been through lots of shit with her, still love her after the wrong she’s done (saying it like that makes me feel sick but I do love her). I’ve half ass caught her on multiple occasions up until she caught an STI and I tested negative after almost a year of having unprotected sec together (that one broke us up for around 4 months until I saw her at a bar hooked up and got back together). I’ve snooped through her phone found texts between her and this one guy in the past meeting at a hotel while we were dating, I caught her texting another guy on multiple occasions on snap chat once she waited for me to fall asleep to rub herself and I’m assuming sext him in my bed while she thought I was sleeping (though I didn’t read the messages, I knew it was a guy she slept with in the past though and I know she was touching herself for certain), another guy she was really secretive with while we first started dating, one time I caught her dancing on a guy at the same bar I was at with her (unfortunately I lost my cool and blacked out on the guy who I later found out was the guy who met her at the hotel), one time when we were fighting she said she was going to a party with the same guy too. As I write this it breaks my heart because I’ve truly loved her for so long, I wanted to marry her and she has treated me as nothing less than worthless and I would never have done that too her under any circumstances. anytime no matter when in the relationship she was never willing to talk to me about it, she painted me out as jealous, she’d say I’m crazy, she’d say that’s why “we broke up for so long too heal” and the list goes on and on but tbh I’ve never gotten a real genuine answer or proof otherwise she’s cheated on me and I want to give her one but is it unfair to give her one last chance if she comes clean?