Relationships

Fantasising daily?

Long term relationship of 5.5 years and we have a 3 year old and a 9 month old. I’ve been on mat leave since last August and my partner has been off work since January (full pay) whilst his company has been changed over so a lot of time together as a family which has been good but hard. Lately I’ve found myself fantasising daily about sex with other people and at times thinking about sex with my exes. I would never cheat, I never have and I haven’t spoke to my exes since before my current boyfriend. I just find myself fantasising about being on a break (because I wouldn’t cheat) and just having a man who’s a friend who I then end up sleeping with and having really passionate sex. I don’t even have any male friends so this again is how it’s fantasy. How normal is it? I mean I feel bad because I have a partner who I am happy with but I think just so much time together and 2 kids close in age so stress and hormones it’s just different with us at this point. The passion isn’t there at the moment and I’m not sure whether that’s just standard long term issues/being comfortable. I think I just miss being wanted in a different way? Normal not normal?

Fantasising daily?
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