One Anonymous Female user on GAG posted this question (though I have my theories on who it is, 21 to 24 years old, Xper Level 4 to 7), and she hit the nail on the head with it. I added a few more to the list, making it fifteen total.
A woman doesn't need to have ALL of these, but having at least eight puts her in good standing compared to girls around her, and the more she has, the more likely she is to attract a high-quality good man who will treat her like the unicorn she is. Sadly, it seems like the majority of modern women don't even have half of these traits, let alone six of them. But without further ado, let's just see what she said and go over the traits that make the ideal woman for (most) men.
1. 100% biologically female.
This is a given. Unless the guy is pansexual (gay), he is going to want an actual woman. Transw omen do not count here, if we're only talking about heterosexual men and what kind of woman they want.
2. 100% Heterosexual.
Again, unless the guy is pansexual (gay) or a cuc kold, he is going to want a woman who is actually straight. Not gay, lesbian, or any of the hundred different synonyms for it, like "bi" or "heteroflexible." That crap is disgusting and no man with self-respect would date/marry a lesbian. Lots of men do, but no man with self-respect becomes a willing literal cuck for his partner.
3. Monogamous/faithful.
Again, unless the guy is a cuc kold, he doesn't want his woman cheating on him. Without trust, there is no relationship. And without respect, there is no trust.
4. Always treats you with respect.
Respect includes appreciation, recognition, and gratitude for what you do for her. Respect is the cornerstone of any human relationship, romantic, professional, or platonic, and this entire post is going over what respect looks like in a heterosexual relationship.
5. Has class and dignity.
A woman who has class and dignity regarding her body and relationship. As in, she's not a slut or promiscuous. This doesn't just mean sleeping around; this includes se x work, and doing awful, degrading crap like OF. Literally no high-quality or self-respecting woman (who's not already an adult film star or s ex worker) does OF. S ex work is as classless and disgusting as you can get, especially the lazy, half-baked s ex work that OF is.
6. Has a sense of humor.
Not required, but highly appreciated. Having a sense of humor means a woman can take a joke and laugh at herself. Being funny means a person can make others laugh. Asking for a funny woman is too much, but a woman that can laugh at herself? That's a turn on.
7. Intelligent.
Like a sense of humor, this is not expected or required, but highly appreciated. An intelligent woman tends to have many of these other traits listed, such as self-respect, a sense of humor, takes care of herself, and great conflict and communication skills.
8. Cooks and cleans.
No one is expecting a modern woman to be a houseslave. However, if you want a traditional relationship with the man as the breadwinner, this is a must-have. It is not required for relationships, but certainly will turn-off a lot of men from being interested in you. More so the "being a grown woman who can't cook" part than the "cleaning" part. But still, both grown men and women should know the basics of cooking. No one is expecting you to be a culinary chef, but at least know how to make eggs and spaghetti for your man.
9. Takes good care of herself (mentally, spiritually, and physically).
This one is kind of tricky. No one is expecting perfection. But at least, you should at least be striving to meet these personal goals for yourself. Being a better person mentally, being better spiritually (this doesn't have to mean "religion," but could), and being a better person regarding your physical health and body. Even the effort is often enough to impress a man.
10. Will take great care of the kids or pets that she’ll have with you.
Many men, if not most of them would ideally like to have a family with the woman he's with. So this is a no-brainer. But having a pet once living together, is a great way to test how a woman will treat her future children, especially a dog.
11. Handles conflict she has with you or others calmly and rationally without yelling, shouting, or screaming (unabusive).
This is a woman who almost always speaks in a calm tone. Someone who doesn't pull an Amber Heard with the man she's with, threatening to cry "abuse" after abusing him. In fact, let's just say, we want a woman who isn't abusive, irrational, wild, or crazy. That should cover all bases.
12. Can hold great conversations with you.
This is more important than women realize and most women never work on this skill, at all. I'd say most women, if not humans in general, are pretty boring to converse with. A subjective opinion sure, but when's the last time a woman had you on the edge on your seat with her words? Or made you laugh out loud just talking with her? Great communication and speaking skills are something both men and women should strive to have, or improve upon, in fact.
13. Gets along with you and most of the people in your life.
This is a good one for anyone to have. You don't have to be friends with his or her friends, but you should make sure you can respect your partner's friends.
14. Is affectionate and enjoys it.
"Affectionate;" it means being caring, friendly, loving, sympathetic, warm, and devoted. Telling someone you love them or care about them is one thing. Showing someone you love them or care about them through your actions, behavior, and gestures, and not your words, is a whole other level.
15. Always helps you out when you need her to and there for you no matter what (devoted).
One of the strongest traits of a partner is being reliable, dependable, devoted, trustworthy, and honest. As a man, we have to be reliable to a woman by being strong for her, and making sure she'll always be protected, safe, and loved. As a woman, this means sticking by a man, for better or worse. Including when he loses his job and it takes 6 to 12 months for him to find another, or if his health goes south for a year or two. Being a devoted partner is one of the strongest, but hardest, things to do in a relationship.
So thank you for writing this initial post, 21 to 24 year old pink Anon, whoever you are. I'm sure some men out there appreciate that good women like you still exist.
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