
If caught your partner cheating who will you attack first?


Im draggin that hoe by her hair and throwin her across the room. ONE because i wanted to put my hands on her JUST ENOUGH BT NOT TOO MUCH just in case she wasn't aware he was taken and TWO because I want to throw her out the way so that I can get to my true target, the motherfckin cheatin dude





I expect to spend at least a night in jail if this situation ever happens
Well ever happens “again” because it happened in high school and she and i beat him up together but only because she had too many girls on her side who would've jumped me had i tried to fight her
And i actually did pic 3 to my ex when he tried to cheat with a second friend. A car almost hit him and i didn't care. Damn i can't believe I kept taking his cheating ass back. But i was 15/16 and wouldn't now
@nawtee_me im not embarassing her. It can be her real hair or a sew in. Either way she's getting dragged out of the way so i can get to him
TBH—If I hear people having sex in my home, as I enter the door I'm leaving the house and she will never see me again. I am a loyal and respectful type of guy and my thing which I often do to friends and family members is that when I feel betrayed, I will disappear and let matters hover over their heads, causing them to overthink and wonder where or why out of the blues I just vanished. As time goes by she'll finally come to her senses and realize her deceiving obsessions could be the reason why I am nowhere to be found. I'm not wasting my energy on attacking anybody, just let the situation hover over their heads and they will be their own wreckage.
I’m actually on probation for this scenario. I took a plea deal. Original charges were simple assault, aggravated assault, terroristic threats, harassment, unlawful dessimination of an intimate image, and attempted robbery. Caught my then girlfriend in the act of fucking my girl. I grabbed him by his legs and started punching him, broke his eye socket, hairline fracture in his jaw. Tried to rob him, but he had no money or anything of value. I don’t hit women, but I had a sextape with her. Sent it out. Took a plea deal for simple assault and unlawful dessimination of an intimate image. 3 years of probation, anger management classes.
Obviously the guy.
See most people go after the person that cheated on your (hopefully now ex). NO.
While it's just as much their fault as the other person, your partner is the one that is mainly guilty: they CHOOSE to cheat on you! Save your energy and kick the partner's ass first...then go after the other person.
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Neither, because neither are worth it at that point.
As much as it hurts finding out you've been cheated on, better to find out than to keep living a lie
Neither one. I would just say, "Good luck with your new relationship! Your stuff will be in boxes in the back yard when you come home and the locks will be changed."
I’ll walk out silently without them knowing and never be heard again.
I didn't.
I left, he ended up getting divorced, lost everything, she didn't stay with him for very long, had another failed marriage, and is just getting by, and my life has been great.
I was going to mop the floor with him, but he looked so pathetic backing into the closet trying to pull up his pants.
My soon to be ex asked me what I was doing there, I came home early, and I simply said I used to live here.
So karma won, not sure what would have happened had I done things differently.
Neither, it would be futile for if the cops were call they would take the woman's side, if married and I own the house/flat or its a rental and its only my name on the lease, I'd tell her to leave, go to her mothers - whatever, and him to just get out. The call out a locksmith and change the lock barrels, while that's being done, Phone around the local Lawyers/Solicitors and get Divorce papers started. Then onto the PC/Laptop and change all bank account passwords put a lock on credit in my name, the block her on social media while leaving a message so friends and family know what's going on.
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Neither of them!
I would snatch a picture for evidence and let them carry on. hopefully they didn't notice me that would make everything much easier then I'd go on the attack on his stuff! 👿 I'd pack it right up for him! Tossing it out the nearest window!
I don't have a relationship with the person that cheated with my woman. The only person that I have a deal with is my girlfriend. She's the one that cheated on me. He just took the opportunity that was given. She's the cheater and the one that should pay the consequences
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I wouldn’t attack either one of them! Some asshole cheating on me is bad, but it’s no excuse to use violence! This actually happened to me, when my first real boyfriend was caught cheating on me! I was so angry and upset, but I still didn’t attack anyone!
They can have each other honestly. If she is willing to cheat I hope she ends up miserable with someone like that. I am not going to put myself in jail but if one of them has the audacity to attack me... I will defend myself with whatever means I need to defend myself with and have them put into jail.
I would be crazy shocked at first then I would just run away and never see him again. Block him on every social media platform. Obviously, he was a big mistake. I would go back home and start thinking what red flags I missed.
And as for the women who forgive their partners for cheating, they know they are settling big time. And their relationship will never be the same as before the cheating happened.
I will attack my partner because maybe other person was innocent and was lied by my partner too. I will attack both if I know the girl too.
Actually I won't attack them at first place. I will just move away and ask him later what he was doing at the time. I will bring out the answer from his mouth only. I will make him confess it.
I've had experience with this when I was a teenager. I was just in shock that I left without saying anything to either of them. He was supposedly my best friend as well.
I didn't see the point in doing time for either of them, so I just walked away.
My now ex fiance cheated on me at the bar we had an ldr. I'm giving him a second chance rn but I don't think it gonna last because of everything.
Partially I think it my fault since I am having a hard time trusting him..
See the thing is
I won't attack. .
I would just pack up and leave unless I'm stop by the guy which is controlling
I blame the guy though tbh Because he can step up and say he's in a relationship.
Why should u trust him when he did that. If he with u it should all ways be about u.
We in an ldr long distance relationship
I'd like to think I wouldn't attack either. Not risking my future on an assault charge, too much to lose (job, house, pension, kids).
If partner is doing that then she's ended our relationship. We'd have to come to an arrangement over kids, she'd have to find somewhere to live, I'm keeping my house
I wouldn’t attack either one of them. I would walk out and he, would never, hear my voice speaking to him again. her… if she reached out and wanted to talk then I would give her that chance cause there’s a possibility she might have not known he’s a relationship and after all, he’s the one that owes me loyalty, not her so…🤷♀️
Neither. The relationship will just come to an end. I will be hurt but I will just move on.
I don’t attack. She did that. I would say, “no worries, let me grab a couple of things and I’ll be out of your way…you can continue what you are doing” then they wouldn’t see me again until I decided to pick up the rest of my stuff. No female is worth getting in a fight over if she decided to cheat on me.
Attack when attacked upon. Show no interest & live a successful life.
Neither of them. I'm in an open relationship so it couldn't be cheating.
If she's with a girl, I'd want to join in.
If it's a guy, I'd want to watch him freak out.
Sometimes, just for fun, my S. O. doesn't tell the other guy we're in an open relationship. LOL
I wouldn't attack either, but I would argue and be mad at my partner. I think wasting your time on the person they are cheating wastes time. I am dropping both if you know and have a relationship with someone cheating on your partner, obviously.
Neither, cause I don't want to go to jail... but in the end I might forgive them and then teach them how to cheat without getting caught, but probably not.
Just move on, or try to make things right.
Ell oh ell! Neither. I know my value. There’s no reason to assault someone who doesn’t. That said, if they’re in MY house or on MY property, they’ll get one warning to get lost before i consider them potentially violent intruders.
I honestly feel like I’d be hurt to the point where my “revenge” would be leaving you silently to the point where you wouldn’t even notice and o completely forget you even exist on this planet, move on, get a whole new look, stay focused on my goals, achieve them, and fully show it off to bother you.
I hope Inwould hear them forst sonI could sneak up on them and calmly record them. Dontneed to cuss and holler. Just coldly kill them with shame.
Definitely my partner. I don’t get people who attack the person they cheated with. Don’t get me wrong, if they knew about your relationship and homewrecked on purpose, then they’re a piece of shit too. But it still mostly falls on your partner.
None, I would just leave him, obviously. If he chose to cheat on me I don't deserve him and he doesn't deserves me, that's all.
The one who isn't my partner never made any commitment therefore is not at fault.
I'd sneakily go into the kitchen. Get some ice cold water and dump it all over him. All the while preparing all the scathing curse words for him. It's his fault the girl can leave unharmed.
I would calmly back out (hopefully undetected). I would go straight to the bank and empty every account, then the locksmith, then home and burn everything he owns.
The partner is the cheating one and the one doing the betrayal. If the outsider even knows at all, they're only being disrespectful. The partner is not only being disrespectful but a whole lot more.
Well, as my wife and I are in a stag/vixen relationship, she gets it from two regular bulls she's been seeing for a couple of years. With my approval, obviously, hence the lifestyle and relationship. So nobody is attacking anybody in my marriage.
I’d just leave. Also because I am not a fighter. But it’s not worth it. I would just leave
I would attack the refrigerator & grab a snack because if I were in a relationship & the sex was good I wouldn’t say anything.
Would you really put up with your partner cheating on you?
@Brainsbeforebeauty only if her & I had mind blowing sex & if the sex wasn’t that good I would be out like a fat kid in dodgeball.
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Attacking someone would be a childish thing. Only if you're easy-fuel person and acting on instinct. But attacking one or another will get you nowhere.
I'd be pissed at my partner and leave the relationship. I wouldn't attack anyone, but it is my partner that is cheating, they get my scorn.
None of them. They can have each other. Why even bother fighting for someone that doesn't care about you?
Neither. I did catch my ex cheating, I dumped her. She was pissed about it because I wouldn't take her back, I wouldn't fight the other guy, I stopped working so she got no child support. I took her to court for child custody and got 3/7 days.
Wouldn't attack anyone.
I'd be upset with my partner as he's the one in a committed relationship with me.
I would attack the guy, my guy. I watch the TV show Cheaters every Saturday morning. The guy usually gets attacked first.
Neither I'd just walk out. I'm not a violent person, I'd be upset but I'd just leave.
Neither just take a picture and send it to her family
Make it a Christmas photo card😂
@Brainsbeforebeauty oh i like it
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If it's in my place dude getting whooped but if it's in public idc he can have her I don't want her and don't fight over no thotties but I will in my spot because that's straight disrespect thinking you can come in my place and do all that.
Not attacking, just straight up leaving. Not worth my time.
I'd shoot both and throw them in the chicken runs. Chicken can dispose of anything.
the guy obviously and the girl if she knew but didn't care
neither, if we were married i'd record a conversation or ss some proof for court (i think that's how it works)
Nobody, just walk out but it's definitely first the partners fault for cheating
Cheating is not tolerated. Good luck with a cheater. She's your problem now.
I would never hit a woman, even under these circumstances. i would kick the crap out of him and deal with her later.
no one. they don't deserve even just a sentence from me, I'll let her have him.
Thankfully never been in that situation, but I would never hit a woman and if the man knew she was with me and cheated, I would certainly go after him.
As a poly-amorous person, I expect to have everything be above-board..
I would start packing my thing and leave. Neither of them are worth the jail time.
The partner. I have no quarrel with the other person.
Attack? I probably just froze there for 5 sec and walked away, cry and never brings him in my life again
Neither, wtf. Leave. Why would you go directly to violence?
Why would you fight anyone? Id lose my mind. But id get the f out of there as fast as possible. Maybe say good luck to the guy, so she doesn't cheat him him later lol
Neither. I'd make tea and invite them to explain themselves. Then ask them both to leave.
No. I will leave the house and block my partner. I don't want to hear his explanation. Period.
Cheating is a choice
Get the car and throw them both out if the house. Probably change all the locks and their clothes would end up outside
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