No, I don’t like making a scene so I’d probably just sit there and let him lie in my face that “it’s not what it looks like” or that “it won’t happen again”. The person he cheated with wouldn’t be the one to be blamed cause it could be just anyone so I don’t see the point in fighting someone that could easily have been somebody else. Now they got their own problem, not respecting the fact that the person they’re sleeping with is not single but really it’s not them directly disrespecting me while my partner sleeping with them is. So if there’s anyone I’d fight it’d be him. After she left that is. Then dump his lying ass.
The cheat-ee isn't the problem. Your partner is. (Not 'you', you, just generalizing 'you'.) For all you know, the cheat-ee might have thought they were single and had no idea. (It happens often.) But the real issue is the cheat-er. And even then, what's the point of fighting? You either break it off, or deal with it somehow. Why run the risk of getting hurt physically yourself, or having someone slap an assault charge on you. The police won't care. If they have to show up and haul away the person who was cheated on in handcuffs, they'll do it. It's just not worth it on so many levels.
Fighting over a cheating partner is like trying to make a canine bitch-in-heat 'faithful'...
if you have to repeatedly 'win' her... the problem is NOT the challenging Suitor
but the interchangeability of HER male-of-the-moment.
In Eastern harems, this problem was solved by taking the offending female
and making her the 'party favor' for the entire palace cadre
until she was SO torn up that euthanasia was a kindness.
Like McDonald's former motto: "Over 50 million served"~
... YOU TOO can BE a semen eclair!
Nope. I’d leave. I’d leave them and be on to the next phase of life. No need to land myself in jail over 2 people who care nothing about me.
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I'm just going to copy and paste a response I had with someone who asked a question similar to yours (With a few editing:
I'm not going to his his ass, why would I? There's nothing to gain, and doing that makes me look lile a dumbass.
Going out of my way to fight this guy who done fucked my WILLING girlfriend/wife, looking like a whole ass clown🤡.
That's not manly, cute, hot, or anything good, that's just a guy making his ass look like a damn fool.
I never understood why a person would rather get mad at the person your lover is cheating on with rather than the person that's deadass cheating on you.
Cheating is a two way street, I'm only going to confront a guy if he's harassing and bothering my partner.
Anyways, what I would do is confront my girlfriend and then dump her, simple as that. Nothing to gain by doing anything else, nothing at all.
I can think of few reasons I'd go after the guy.
1. If I lived with my girl and he came into my home to cheat with her in my home. I'd beat the daylight out of him for doing that in my home. And kick her out. She's gone period, but he's getting punished regardless of if he knew she was cheating.
2. He knows me, we have beef, and he targeted by girl, pursuing her to get her to cheat and succeeds. I'm not sure I'd physically hurt him, but I'd get him back in some way. Maybe go for his job, maybe kick his ass. Because he targeted me personally i would target him personally
Outside of those two reasons I can't think of a reason to go for the guy, rather than just dumping the girl
I wouldn't fight because im not gonna go to jail over some jerk who cheated on me with some stupid bitch.. id just kick him out if we lived together and probably get some revenge eventually for my heartache because once someone cheats on me, my love is gone and dead.
Lol those people who fight with the third one involved are stupid.
Their so called partner who cheated on them should get 80% of beating, insults and breakup while the homewrecker should get 20% of it.
People don't fight with a cheating partner because they still wanna stay with them.
I don't fight over men. If he's willing to allow another woman into the equation, she's welcome to have him. I'm not gonna fight someone that my man voluntarily choose to have CONSENSUAL sex with when he's not a damn child and knew exactly what he was doing fighting over someone is dumb
Why? I see this all the time and all I can ask is, what is the point? It will serve no purpose and give me nothing except a one way ticket to legal trouble. Unless he attacks me first I'm just going to walk away and let him have her.
Also most of those people on Jerry Springer are just doing it for the attention. Watch how the women and men fight, you can tell they are holding back.
Just my boyfriend if I had one. I'd definitely want to make sure he doesn't finish. And I'd definitely want to make sure that he is miserable.
That he would fear for his safety.
I want him to feel like that day might be his last, and just when he thinks I won't let him go. Release him.
But I'm not violent so I'd probably just slap him then do his head in shouting.
Then leave.
Could probably line up the shot when they're humping to get one bullet through both their skulls. Or, just shoot the one on top and laugh as the on on the bottom struggles to get the dead person they're having sex with off of them and untangle their junk.
Nope not worth it she's the one who gave in she had to accept it orb maybe even proposition's him. of course she's going to say it was a mistake an accident you have to think she entertain it, she welcomed it then she started talking about your problem giving him, the greenlight cause he will use that as chis wzyn in
I would not waste my energy and time fighting the guy, my girl is cheating on me with. Clearly she’s a hoe & unfaithful. And I can’t be at mad at the guy for excepting an offer from this when she’s the one who came to him.
So unless she is drunk, then I might be a little mad at the dude, because he’s taking advantage of her when she’s not in the right state of mind. Otherwise, it’s a simple, “Bye Felicia” and move on
Absolutely, not. If he is cheating she deserves him.
I will fight to the ends of the earth FOR the man I love.
However I will not fight OVER him. If he's doing that shit he is already gone or never cared
"What girlfriend what guy last thing I knew she ran away with him. So, No officer haven't seen a thing."
I'll sleep comfortably on my bed every night and I swear to God if it ever happens in my own bed people will be going missing and wind up on the other side of the fucking world in tiny tiny pieces.
No. At least not at first. As it says in the free ebook "Woman to Women", sometimes a man will seduce the other woman and not tell her he's in a relationship already. She falls in love with him and doesn't even know he's married/has a girlfriend. If I found out (later on) that she knew he was married/had a girlfriend, then I'd tell them both: "You can have each other. But don't be surprised if, one day, you cheat on each other." Then I'd walk away from the both of them.
I think i will fight my partner first and than her, because I cannot understand how can people date taken person (person in a relationship). In the end will just leave him and move on because people who cheat once can do it again
Absolutely not. She wouldn’t be cheating on me. She might not even know I exist. Different story for him. His bits could be injured.
I don't think I would. Since I am in a relationship with her and not him. I won't even pay attention to him.
But man, walking in on my partner cheating is my worst nightmare. I don't know what I would do. That's the day the world will end.
i would not fight the guy or girl my partner was with because one i do not do violence so i would not but also i think that i would be mad but would not fight physically but would just talk with the person.
I'd hope, it's not worth it. As well as losing relationship why risk losing freedom/job by getting a criminal record.
It's my OH i'd be angry at. Relationship pretty much always over. So would deal with the fallout of that.
if I caught my man cheating on me then I would let her have him for then I would know that he is just not - man enough for me - ! thanks
I wouldn't fight them, but I would demand that they leave. As for my partner, I'd do the same and tell her to leave as well. No explanation required, it's over.
And from that moment both of them don't exist to me anymore.
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