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Like I don’t know why I can’t find a date to save my life. I don’t think I’m ugly, I take decent care of myself. Every pretty woman I know has been in relationships/ taken/ has no issue finding a guy. I’m told by my mother all the time that I just haven’t found the right guy and I’m tired of hearing that because it makes me feel like the victim/ I’m powerless/ being alone is not my fault. That’s how it feels like, dating apps usually ends in being ghosted or dull conversations.

First, No one was rude or inappropriate in private or in public. People were very kind and supportive.

Second, I think I may have inadvertently implied by hastily getting rid of the earlier post bc I was UNCOMFORTABLE , that there is somehow something wrong if someone happens to be COMFORTABLE, wearing this kind of dress. I in NO WAY meant to give that impression. I have my own hauntings to work through but it is entirely personal.

... I was not brought up to appreciate my body- entirely polite way of putting it. The environment was intensely hostile. I don’t believe that was the intention, and until I moved out a few years ago, it was “normal”. People can care and still harm. To an extent, it was useful, bc I wasn’t obsessing and could focus on strengthening other aspects. However, after a point I just quietly hatred myself and detached. I am learning to reconnect.

.. Gag has been really helpful in that regard. Not some journey to feel “hot”- It’s nice to not feel like a monster of course.. This is about not feeling shame, when objectively there’s nothing unethical happening. Not about cleavage or no cleavage, just being a relatively normal person. Too lengthy to get into here. I don’t want to stray off topic. Maybe a My Take Sometime.

Point is, I see NOTHING wrong in appreciating the female or male firm and dressing as if you are not ashamed of your body.

Thirdly , I simply can’t be sure why I am uncomfortable. I don’t think the dress is obscene.. I think It more the internal judgement stemming from the past, that I don’t want to be a slave to. I am developing an appreciation of the female form that I previously lacked. I know I have spoken negatively and I think it’s inappropriate. It sheds a bad message.

—As for the 👗.. I think If I was uneasy I ought not have posted.. Posting THEN pulling bc it’s scandalous 🤭🤭 was just dumb and immature.

I hope I didn’t offend any Women by being a dork.. You guys were really helpful.
TY 🌟🌟