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I have an East Asian friend (probably Japanese or Korean; I don't know tbh). He was rejected four times this month, so my boys and I are trying to help him out. Here's his stats based on the most objective analysis we have created:

• 6'3 tall
• quite the handsome devil
  • impeccable jawline
  • piercing eyes although they aren't blue
• well-built (athletic)
• smart
  • 1570 on the SAT; can you believe it?
• great personality
  • friendly
  • confident
  • has leadership

We REALLY want to help him. Why does he still get no girls at all?

One of the things that we came up with is that he's Asian and therefore looks unattractive (we live in a small town where he is the only nonwhite kid in school). However, we really don't want to end this off on such a hopeless note. After all, we've known each other in our friend group for 11 years. For reference, I am only 5'10 and semi-obese, but I still pull more girls than him. There is a girl, known to be the "ugly duckling".

Do we really just tell him that Asian guys are just inherently unattractive, or is there some other way we can sugarcoat it?

this is over distance we met a few years ago at a mutual friends party and started talking online
I met this woman a few months ago and last night she finally admitted that she likes me but the thing is I can see that she is very afraid of being vulnerable whereas I am not she seems to have fear of abandonment

Anyway she obtains her income by being on social media and she posts a lot of things relating to her work on this. The thing is she posts things like if a man is not as successful as her she cannot even be around him. Whereas with me I can associate with anyone I do not care who they are

She claims that I am like family to her and she did wear her best outfit for me on my birthday

she says things about her friends to me and she seems very upset when her friends think she is weird but she also says that she is so confident that she doesn’t care what others think of her

She says on her social media that she wants a guy who is wealthy. But with me she claims that money does not matter to her when it comes to love

she told me that her social media is just a game and she also told me when this guy was sending her gifts that it was just a game as part of the social media

She asks guys their height

She has lip fillers and spends a lot of money on her appearance (not that this matters but it may help with your assessment)

She said that she could not even be around a man who isn’t as successful as her but thing is I am just some ordinary guy

I have helped her with one part of her social media and I have achieved massive results for her whereas on her own she was fairly idle and just quite lazy with it

I am qualified in communications so I know how to increase audience

I don’t know what to think of this

Should I stay with her or go?

I do like her and she knows it but I don’t know if she’s being real with me or fake as in she is fake in general and just wants me to remain in her life so she does not feel vulnerable

if I delete her I may lose her forever