Girls, Why do most Girls go after Confident Guys when they are more likely to Cheat than Shy Guys are?

[Anonymous]

Girls, Can you tell me who do you think is more likey to cheat and why?

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I just don't understand why most Women ignore the Guys who are less likely to Cheat and go after the ones who are usually more likely to Cheat.

I know every Guy is capable of Cheating, But wouldn't most Girls try and reduce the risk of getting Cheated by going after a Shyer Guy.

Shyer Guys have odviously a lesser chance of cheating on a Girl because they have lesser Girls liking them.

I just want one of you Girls to explain it because I still don't understand.

[Anonymous]

Because there is no real correlation between confidence and the likelihood of cheating. Cheating is a moral issue that applies to both secure and insecure individuals.
But back to the confident vs. shy man: confidence is sexy! Confidence is manly, it communicates that the man is ambitious, knows what he wants, and is not going to sit on the sidelines waiting for life to be handed to him. Confident men are leaders.
Shy guys, though genuinely sweet, don’t come across as manly. They don’t give the impression that know what they want or are willing to go after what they want. They don’t come across as leaders, and instead, come across as passive and non-confrontational.
Don’t get me wrong. Shy men are great men! But they’re just not for me.

[Asker]

You said there is no real correlation, Of corse there is it's not Rocket Science...

A Confident Guy is going to talk to more People than a Shy Guy aren't they so he is going to have more Chances of Meeting someone and He is going to have other Women Attracted since he is Confident won't he.

You Still haven't answered my question.

[jennifer_bloom]

The only reason confident guys might cheat more than shy guys is that confident guys attract more women than shy guys. If shy guys were able to get girls as easily as confident guys, they would cheat just as much if not more than the confident guy. Girls want guys to choose them because they are their favourite female option, they do not want the man to marry them because all the other ladies they would rather settle down with won't accept their flaws and weaknesses or insecurities.

[Asker]

Yet, They still go for the type of Guys who are more likely to Cheat.

[noemiii]

Because they want to. If a man is going to cheat, he’s going to cheat regardless of if he’s shy or confident. I’d date a shy guy, but not a shy guy who’s insecure about why women aren’t choosing him. It’s annoying and like dating a man child. Nobody cares about statistics and just makes you look like you have an inferiority complex.

[Raeannox]

You can be confident and shy/ introverted.
Not all girls like overly sociable and confident men.
Most actually want an attractive confident man who is not on social media and is friendly but not overly and is committed.

[Asker]

Okay, But that type of fairly Rare.

[Anonymous]

She’s right. Good guys with bad streaks.