Search Results: if you text the guy first all the time

Are these early red flags and should I be concerned?

I met this guy through online dating and we’ve been chatting quite a bit. I’ve told him I’ve recently been through a bad experience with someone else and said I just want to focus on work and finding my feet with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

How can I forget this guy?

Hi. It's been over 6 months since I left my ex. Although I loved him more than anything, I couldn't stand the hurtful words he kept telling me, the physical violence, the lies, the manipulation... I would pack my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

What does he see me as?

so there’s this guy who lives very far from me, and i haven’t seen him in person in almost two years. but him and i still text each other every single day since first of all, him and i have this very intense sexual...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

How to approach this?

I was texting with a girl for 3 months. We were not able to go out together because i was out of town, but we talked about once per week and texter around 3 times per week. She said that she trusts me and that she is...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Am I being played?

I started seeing this guy recently, we talk everyday and always look forward to seeing one another. He seems to put in a lot of effort always wanting to do romantic things (like go on dates, cuddle up to one another, he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

My boyfriend can’t give any emotional support. He has been through a lot, & I am there for him, but he can’t give the same to me. What do I do?

Hi guys. My boyfriend’s dad passed away about 2 years ago before we started dating. When we first dated, he talked about him lightheartedly, but I noticed some signs of him sweeping emotions under the rug. I would...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Are these early red flags?

So I’ve met this guy through online dating and we’ve been chatting quite a bit. I’ve told him I’ve recently been through a bad experience with someone else and said I just want to focus on work and finding my feet with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Fell for a married man did he too?

I started talking to this guy and at first it didn’t seem Anything serious till we both started to confine in eachother about our current relationship and we just had so much chemistry we never ever even touched but did...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Is an intensity early on a red flag?

I’ve met this guy through online dating and we’ve been chatting quite a bit. I’ve told him I’ve recently been through a bad experience with someone else and said I just want to focus on work and finding my feet with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Are these early red flags?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Psycho or just bipolar?

Met this girl about 1.5 months ago. The first couple dates went good, but she was always kind of timid and concerned about intruding and inconveniencing me etc. She never was until she started saying that and then I would...

red324

Guru Age: 37

Guy's Behavior

Why does he text me all the time?

I had a guy coworker that ask me for my phone number a while back and we haven’t really texted unless it was work related like to switch shifts or ask if work is busy etc, but recently he started texting me. He texted me...

sweetrosepetal

Xper 3 Age: 26

Guy's Behavior

Guy I like said after a while not talking he misses me and my pretty face and gorgeous body, that I am on his mind so much, does he mean it?

Hey, This guy I like texted me again after a while not texting/talking (something happened) and the first thing he said was "I miss you" and he said more things, like "I miss talking to you" "you were on my mind the...

Jayde21

Xper 5 Age: 24

Guy's Behavior

What are some signs a guy has lost interest long distance?

We used to talk all the time throughout the whole day, he used to reply pretty fast, but the past three months he just became increasingly distant. Takes 12+ hours to respond even though he is clearly online, he doesn’t...

Violeteyes21

Xper 2 Age: 26

Guy's Behavior

How long does it take to move on and forget someone?

I met this guy and we both started to develop feelings for each other, he was the one who developed it first and he started treating me in such a way that I fell head over heels in love with him.. But later, when he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

What should I do about this situation?

There is this guy that I have been talking to. His communication skills aren't the best, though we are working through things right now. We recently have gotten into a rough patch, I will say. It went from...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Does he like me or am I reading too much into stuff?

so i met this guy and to understand this also i was working at the y this summer out of my state and so i met him and found out he was from where i was too. anyway, he came in around 3pm where i worked and we hit it off...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Would a guy still ask you on a date if he wasn’t really interested?

Two months ago I met a guy at a nightclub. We chatted for a bit, danced and then we went our separate ways. The next weekend I went back to the same club with my girl friends and he recognized me and we started chatting...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why would he delete me off Facebook? it hurts so badly and I don’t know what to do?

I’ve been talking to this guy for 5 months and at first it was long distance until I moved to his state ( it wasn’t because of him or anything my mom decided to move.) The first week of getting here he decided to book a...

Angieje

Xper 3 Age: 27

Dating

Why would he delete me off Facebook? Was he just using me even though we were talking for 5 months?

Ok so I’ve been talking to this guy for 5 months and at first it was long distance until I moved to his state ( it wasn’t because of him or anything my mom decided to move.) The first week of getting here he decided to...

Angieje

Xper 3 Age: 27