Sometimes he would not text back for 2 days, & he needed exorbitant amounts of alone time, which was okay. He would go on trips a lot with friends/his fam alone. I tried to give him space.
Unfortunately, I had several instances in the year where I called crying because of an abusive situation at home. I’m standing there on the phone crying in pain, and all he says is “I’m sorry. I don’t know how to help you.” That’s all. I was sort of shocked.
Iit happened 2 more times and definitely hurt me a bit. I know it’s not his responsibility to make me happy, or get me out of a danger situation, but some emotional help would have been okay.
I tried to give him as much space as possible, but the relationship eventually crumbled bc of lack of emotional support & we broke up. There was another instance where he took 2 days to text back, & had a week period of not wanting to see me. I just hardly saw this guy. He later said he was just sad about his dad. Is there anything I could do better next time, be more transparent etc? He is completely healed/moved on. I feel awful & really thought giving him space as a guy would help. Thank you so much.
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