Search Results: insecure about looks

Should I lose weight for my self esteem or keep it as is for my relationship?

My current boyfriend has a thing for thick girls and fell for me as I am now. Due to weight gain from quarantine the past 1 1/2 years. As I scrolling through my family text messages. I found old selfies of myself from...

FictionalCharacter

Guru Age: 36

Is this normal…or am I insecure?

My boyfriend I’ve known since 5th grade, him (25) me (24), we just started dating in our twenties and it’s been good. But, the second time we go to the store there’s a chick nearby in Ross, an when walking away he’ll stop...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

How can I start to love myself and stop having anxiety and feeling so insecure?

I’m a healthy individual. I’m 5’7 and blonde you’d think I’d have lots of confidence because I shouldn’t worry about anything. My boyfriend dropped me off last night and I straight up just looked at him and said, “I...

crazycactus242

Xper 5 Age: 21

Is it acceptable to admit that people can have physical preferences in others that don't fit your own and that that's okay?

I see this a lot on this site. When it comes to race, looks, etc. The dick questions, the boob questions, and yes (Daniela), even the height questions. We're all insecure about at least one thing. I sure as sh*t am....

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

Girl's Behavior

How can a woman tell if other women are jealous of her?

One of my friends has gotten a few cosmetic surgeries done and seems really insecure in herself. She also finds something wrong with every guys appearance that she dates, just something I noticed. Anyway, we were having a...

Kat14590

Xper 1 Age: 30

Health & Fitness

Am I being dramatic for blocking out family members?

I blocked my cousin and my uncle. I’m in my 20s. I have struggled with my weight for so long. And I finally had weight loss surgery and lost 70 lbs in 8 months. I feel great. I’ve been running every day. For...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it normal for a guy to lose interest in his girlfriend because she lacks confidence?

Now I’ve read stories from men admitting and women saying: That their husband/boyfriend broke up with her. Because she was fat/obese. (This is the most common story of why a guy broke up with his wife/girlfriend. And...

FictionalCharacter

Guru Age: 36

Relationships

I’m attracted to my friend and I can’t tell she likes me?

One of my bests friends is this hot blonde bombshell, for this I’ll call her A. A and I met at a party when I was in a bad place in my life and she helped me out of it over time. She had a toxic relationship when I met...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I feel like every guy I’ve been with has looked at me like I’m ugly or not attractive because I’m a 7/10?

I feel like they always look for better and believe they can do so Is this just me being insecure or it’s like that?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Thoughts on relationship from a 30 year old virgin.

So I have for the first time in my life made a serious attempt at creating a romantic and sexual relationship for myself and it has surfaced a lot of new thinking and lessons learned through those efforts that I wish to...

string43

Xper 1 Age: 35

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Flirting

Why is the girl I like acting super weird around me?

Me and my crush dated two years ago for a short while. I broke up with her because she was chatting to male friends a lot, which looking back was insecure and naive. She stared at me non-stop for two years and made...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My crush has started acting weirdly around me and I’m not sure why?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Fashion & Beauty

Do Guys Like Cleft Chins?

I’ve always been extremely insecure of my cleft chin until like 2019-ish. These pics aren’t me but she looks almost identical to me and she’s the reason i’m not as insecure about my chin because i find her extremely pretty.

Anonymous

(18-24)

How do I get my male friend to stop being insecure?

So I was giving my friend an idea on what color he should dye his hair. I ran into a picture on Instagram of a guy who recently dyed his hair a sandy blonde color. So I showed my friend and he got kinda irritated...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is my boyfriend insecure, wtf is wrong with him?

We spent amazing summer together in our summer house. S went to furniture shop today and I was like"oh look the garden set same as i got on our solarium" He was like "I didn't even know you had solarium in that house"...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What are signs a women is crazy or has issues?

So basically I met this women (she’s 27 I’m 24) and we’ve been dating for about 2 months. Early on it was kinda cool but the more I get to know her I think she has the potential to be crazy or psycho. She’s definitely...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why the hell would a 38 year old man date a 19 year old? Is the man a loser? And why do women date low status men all the time? Including my sister?

Alright so my cousin is dating a 38 year old man. Apparently he’s a dog walker, and he has this weird long ass beard and is all hippie looking. She met him at a bar in Boston. And at some point she even went...

WhiteBoyChill

Yoda Age: 25

Girls, For the sapphics, would you date me?

Okay so like I have a birth mark on my cheek and yeah the other day, I got rejected by a girl she said I looked weird, kinda hurt me, made me a little insecure. Like ik m pretty and all but like is my birth mark a big...

Anonymous

(18-24)