But…
I’ve never read/heard of a guy losing interest in his girlfriend because she lacks confidence.
Which is something I’m experiencing in my situation/ex relationship. ……………
As I entered in Long Distance Relationship. My ex boyfriend told me about his hopes and dreams about us starting a future together. I took this seriously and wanted to handle this responsibility. I was doing research about Long Distance Relationships, looking into k-1/k-3 visas, cost on travel, journal for emotions, talking to my parents about him. I was laying out a plan for a successful relationship in the future for us. But, I noticed he was not putting in the effort the way I was……
when I questioned him about it. His response was; “look, we both need to focus on ourselves right now. I need to finish school and you need to focus on yourself too. You are insecure and lack confidence. I do want a relationship with you, but not with you like this.” This broke me 💔 and killed my motivation of planning our future together.
I posted this question on my feelings and thoughts. Then confronted to my boyfriend about this. That he clarified he “never meant to push me away”. He just wants me to be happier and accepts me as I am. (my insecurities get the best of me. I don’t want to ruin our relationship. I aware I do need help 😞😢)
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