Girls, do you ever lose attraction for a guy when SOMETIMES he displays he is not confident about something but is overall confident?

[Still-alive]

Like he clearly carries himself well in how he stands, walks and talks... but sometimes there might be a situation where uh ohhh he isn't so confident about what he's doing.

would this make you lose attraction for him? sometimes seeing little chinks in the armor so to speak? lol

[CrazyGirl2]

It depends what it is, if he is a normally confident man, but he’s not very confident sexually, maybe he's just inexperienced. Or for older people he’s only been with one woman for 10, 2-, or more years, and this is his first time with someone or someone new? I doubt that would be a turn-of, but I could see how if he NEVER became confident in bed, that might be a turnoff?

when it comes to any other reason…. Nehhh? I doubt it. If he was a generally confidant man, but just had one area of his life where he was not very confident… well everyone has their weakness, that one thing that terrifies us. Speaking in public seems like a big one that I hear about from a lot of people. That’s never been an issue, but I’ve was competing in gymnastics since I was a little girl, and sometimes if you win a meet you give a speech, so I guess I'm used to it.

but I cannot see loosing interest (or especially attraction which is usually a 90% looks thing, until you really get to know a person and find something else to admire or be attracted to. I cannot see that diminishing because he lacks confidence in one area?

[menina]

That doesn't make me lose attraction. Everybody has a confidence issues, no one is 100% confident. So, I would just see him as "more human" and I would help him if I could.

[Guy13]

We don’t have to be perfect. They don’t want us perfect. It’s okay to have weaknesses

[petitedollbabee]

No, even if you’re a super confident person, there will be times where you’re unsure of something or anxious. That’s normal.

[mandyfire98]

No, not at all. We all can't be super confident about everything.

[Ninania]

Quite the opposite. I lose attraction if he's overly confident even when he should be humble.

[On_cloud_wine]

Yes, let’s not be too cocky ☝🏻

[Still-alive]

so if he honestly admits something like 'im not confident about my ability to sing' would you lose attraction for him?

[On_cloud_wine]

Absolutely not. that takes practice and a bit of talent. You can always take singing classes together to improve your vocal chords lol

[On_cloud_wine]

Or do what I do.. I sing every Sound of Music song in the shower to warm them up lol