Is my boyfriend insecure, wtf is wrong with him?

[Anonymous]

We spent amazing summer together in our summer house.
S went to furniture shop today and I was like"oh look the garden set same as i got on our solarium"
He was like "I didn't even know you had solarium in that house"
Im like"didn't i show you? its ok. Ill take you there next time.
AND HE GOES:"NEXT TIME WHEN? IN THE OTHER LIFE? OR NEXT TIME WE GO?"
... THE F**CK WAS THAT?
Im like:"sure, when i get new car, ill take you there..."
I was confused af.
It was like as if he doesn't believe i really wanna take him there again.
I dont understand him. Why he is like this?
We date since June!!! we were work coleagues and then friends for 2 years before actually started dating!

[Pyrofox]

Sounds like just joking and making small talk. And looking to the future to me.

[Asker]

Maybe im stupid... i dont get it

[Pyrofox]

Just playing dumb so you hug him or give a small poke the ribs for being dumb. XD.

[Asker]

Well all i got is confusio and sense of lack of trust from him
He sounded like he doesn't belive i wanna take him there😔☹

[spartan55]

@Wizzardgirl
Do you always think the worst like this?

[Asker]

@pyrofox yes

[Asker]

@spartan55 i mean yeah i do

[spartan55]

That's a real turn off after a while. Fyi

[OlderAndWiser]

Is he maybe stressed about something else and just taing it out on you?

[Asker]

Not stressed

[OlderAndWiser]

It really sounds like something below the surface that is bothering him.

[Asker]

What do you mean

[OlderAndWiser]

Like he is bothered by something that you two haven't discussed and you may not have any awareness of what it is that's bothering him.

[Asker]

What it is?

[OlderAndWiser]

You would need to ask him that question.

[PeterSmith1983]

Doesn't sound anything serious it will be if you act so stressed all the time

[Asker]

He doesn't know i got nervous about it

[PeterSmith1983]

Good keep it that way and have fun 🔥

[spartan55]

Good lord lighten up, he was kidding around.

[Asker]

Where is the joke then

[spartan55]

So because you didn't get it your boyfriend is insecure? Okay... think you might take yourself a BIT too seriously.

[Asker]

Its my thought
I dunno why he said it

[spartan55]

Why don't you just ask him?

[Asker]

I feel stupid asking that

[spartan55]

So, it bothers you, yet you feel stupid asking about it? That doesn't make sense.

[Asker]

Ok then

[spartan55]

Lighten up, your relationship will thank you for it.

[Asker]

What lighten up means
Im not English

[spartan55]

Don't take everything so seriously. Don't automatically think the worst...