Is my boyfriend (ex) insecure?

[Anonymous]

I admit I cheated on him with his older brother. We slept together and eventually, he caught us. It was just a one night stand, but I did it because he’s so boring to be with and he wasn’t as fun as he used to be anymore. I appreciate that he cooks for me, tries every effort to keep me happy, but, his brother is just more fun to be with.

Plus, he tends to be a bit needy and controlling whenever I go to parties. I felt like I was a property, so I went out with his brother (he was the one who asked me out), and had a few drinks. We eventually slept in a motel where we checked in to make sure he won’t find out, but unfortunately, he saw us having unsafe intercourse, then he cried like a helpless kid. I told him exactly the reason why I did what I did, then that was the time I broke up with him.

If he really loves me, why won’t he just let me go?

Updates

+1 y

I didn’t cry after breaking up with him since I felt like I wasted 2 and a half years being with him. I realized that he wasn’t really ready for me.

[Honesttguy]

you guys had bad communication in relationship. He was as justdoing what TV and society tells us to do, cooking, cleaning taking care, who knew those where things female had to do for her men inatead, i always told it and everyone around me attacks ans tries to silence me. There u go society full with guys with no balls.
Good luck out there to find actually maaculine men cus they are slowly going extinct.

[awkward_author]

He's upset because he feels betrayed. Your ex-boyfriend still has feelings for you and needs time to get over it.

[boobliker]

no he is pissed with his Bro you should walk away and forget him do not rub salt in his wounds

[Anonymous]

He's not insecure. But he does need to get some self respect and cut you loose.

[spartan55]

Wow, so classy. 🙄

[Anonymous]

Whore

[Anonymous]

Hot af