Why is my boyfriend so insecure?

[lostinthis]

he'd say he's too ugly for me and says he's scared i might ghost him for his looks and stuff. and I've told him countless times i dont care, but sometimes he just brings his looks and his perosnality back..

[DishLady]

Some guys have been burned before so they presume the same sh*t will happen to them again.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Tell him the facts. That his insecurity is going to push you away. Not his looks, but his insecurity.

[ehatsham_hussain]

You have to increase his confidence

[lostinthis]

in what way can i

[ehatsham_hussain]

Just give him compliment about everything

[ehatsham_hussain]

Boost his confidence

[lostinthis]

yes, i have tried a lot. but i will keep trying then!

[ehatsham_hussain]

Best of luck 👍
No one is ugly until he / she lost their confidence..
God made everyone in a balanced way

[lostinthis]

you're right, thanks!

[ehatsham_hussain]

Welcome 😊

[BarryLiverstone]

Because you tell him you don’t care

[lostinthis]

i told him i wouldn't care about how bad or good he looks, so why is he still so insecure?

[BarryLiverstone]

Exactly. How would you feel if you tried on a new dress and asked him about it and he replied “I don’t care how good or bad you look”?

[Emanon25]

He’s afraid of you to dump him.

[lostinthis]

thats true. i thought so too