Search Results: can girls and guys be just friends

Girls, is it valid feelings if someone reminds you of a past love of yours?

She looks quite like my ex, both face and body. Since looking her in the eyes with her smiling even in a drunk state (we were playing a drinking game as a group) I even glimpse at her body now and then. Now the heavy part...

scooogy

Master Age: 34

Family & Friends

Why do some of my peers only care about marriage, church and different things now?

I mean there’s nothing wrong with that, but ever since some of my peers from high school are married and in relationships now they’ve changed. My friend I meet in college is now married, has a daughter isn’t interested in...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Broke up but do I need to wait for him?

We were virtual office colleagues, we cracked dirty jokes and we vibed even though we are two opposite souls. However we both are in different places and finally I got job offer at his place, told him the same, he said he...

kiasdfgh

Xper 1 Age: 29

Girl's Behavior

Girls, Be honest do you have trust issues with guys/men, if so why, and can a guy help fix those trust issues?

Me personally, I can’t “fix” a girl, if someone is hell bent, stuck on the past or has trauma. I’ll do my best to reassure her that I’ll be there for her and talk to her. But often times, it doesn’t work. It’s like if I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Does he like me?

Hello guys so I am just curious to know does this guy in my neighborhood like me? So there is guy in my neighborhood that we rent the same apartment units. Well firstly, I noticed that whenever his friends see me they...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Why does my guy friend treat me differently than our mutual female friend?

So, there's this guy friend of mine, We're pretty close, but here's the thing - he teases me about pretty much everything under the sun. It's like, if it's not how I talk, it's how I sound. And if it's not how I sound,...

DabieberRoyalty

Xper 6 Age: 30

Religion & Spirituality

Do you think it's wrong to shame people for their income or grades?

Unless your stealing or robbing banks, your money making skills come from God cause your intelligence and health and strength comes from God, so I would say, you can't mock somebody who makes less then you, and not expect...

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

Guy's Behavior

I'm a 20-year-old girl and he's a 34-year-old respected lawyer. Is there something wrong with him?

So a few months ago I met an older guy on a dating app. We were talking for a while, then stopped for a while but he texts me from time to time. He's a lawyer, very well educated, highly respected, lives abroad. I'm...

baddiska

Xper 4 Age: 22

Relationships

What are pros and cons of being someone's first girlfriend/boyfriend? Is it happened with u too? What was your experience?

Tell us about your views🥰🥰🤗cutie people. What are pros and cons of being someone's first girlfriend/boyfriend? Especially of a cute nerd. (Lol he thinks I'm cutiepie )😭but he is. He never been in a relationship. He...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

She’s loud around others, but quiet around me. Is it because we barely know each other or could she like me?

A month ago, a new girl joined my friend group. I’ve barely been around due to work and travel, so this past Saturday was my first full day hanging with the group in a while. While we’re eating dinner, she calls my name...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Do you tend to value men or women's opinions more? Why?

I dislike that my boyfriend appears to ONLY value men’s opinions. Anything I or any other woman says to him goes in one ear and out the other. But let a guy say the same thing and he's all ears and ready to take the...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

I dislike that my boyfriend appears to ONLY value men’s opinions. Anything I or any other woman says to him goes in one ear and out the other. But let a guy say the same thing and he's

Anyways, it made me question whose opinions I tend to value? I am very stubborn and not many people can get through to me. I can only think of one girl who has just really gotten through to me but I guess I notice that it’s mostly been guys, thus I value men’s opinions more.

I don't know if my guy simply values the male view more because he’s so insecure and intimidated by other men, which he says all the time. But I value the guys perspective because I want to know how to captivate, communicate with, and better understand the gender that I’m attracted to.

Some may call that a “pick me” but I don’t consider it the same thing. I feel pick me’s seek validation while I more so want advice and guidance. Who better to understand a guy I’m into than a guy himself?

If I wanted advice on how to improve my appearance, dress style or to better control my emotions, then I’d seek a woman’s advice since we better understand one another’s insecurities and reactions. I rarely ask other women for advice on guys though because so many take it as competition to go after that same guy. Its so weird. Girlcode always seems to go out the window.

Another thing could be that I grew up looking up to my grandpa more than anyone else. I also got along best with my male cousin and my uncle. My friends have always been 90% guys. Like, my mom held it down for a bit but her inconsistent behavior and broken promises really got to me. So I stopped looking up to her. Maybe she, my grandma and a bunch of flaky female friends and cousins ruined it for other women too.

Some men have wronged me but never as many men as women. I guess same can be said for my boyfriend since he feels more women have wronged him yet all I ever see these days is men treating him badly. #FeelFreeToList

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Relationships

A girl who was with me for a month and she was like addicted to me as continous call and mesages. We also had sex for around 8-9 time in a day?

A girl who was with me for a month and she was like addicted to me as continuous call and messages. We also had sex for around 8-9 time in a day and after she started ignoring me for my small small reasons like i am...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Is my friend being toxic? or am I horrible for thinking that she is?

I’ve been friends with this girl for over 10 years. She is what I used to consider my best friend. We were very close. She would disassociate herself from time to time to deal with personal stuff, I totally understand it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

He rejected me 10 months ago but now wants to see me?

There’s this guy Evan that I’ve liked for such a long time, we’ve always been friends. He’s my friend’s bf’s brother and over the past 6 years we’ve always been flirty. Never did anything till 10 months ago we hung out...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, What would you make of this?

I was hanging out with my friend - who I really like. A guy we both know stopped to chat with us for a while - and then tried to say something to me but forgot my name (just at that moment , I do that kind of thing all...

Violet_78

Xper 4 Age: 48

Dating

How to get out of the friend zone?

It seems like with females I can always get to the point where i get the he’s a great guy and treats the women right but to me he’s a good friend. I get that a lot. For example I have one really good friend that I talk to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, What is this "I miss you" text from an old friends with benefits about?

Guy I used to hang out with, but we were never serious. I have a strong tendency to live and die by the agreements I make. He said he didn't want a relationship so I said "Cool, don't be in one" and treated him like a...

SomeNobody

Xper 1 Age: 36

Dating

I don’t know why I feel bad, but am I wrong?

So I have a friends with benefits with a guy that has been going on here in there for some time. Long story short, he’s been telling me all these things that every girl wants to hear. he randomly asked me where are some...

Hawaiikai

Xper 7 Age: 31

Dating

Girls, I'm dating this mixed guy and my family will not like that?

I'm brown (Indian), and he is mixed white and brown. He's as tall and strong, and I've been dating him for five weeks. My family won't like him because he is mixed. When I go out with friends I secretly ask him to come...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Should I believe what this psychic told me about her?

I have a close friend. We share a deep emotional bond. We have “flirted” before but casually and my friend has told me she’s flirted with friends when she lived in her hometown. We’re both bi girls and we’ve drunkenly...

Anonymous

(25-29)