She’s loud around others, but quiet around me. Is it because we barely know each other or could she like me?

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A month ago, a new girl joined my friend group. I’ve barely been around due to work and travel, so this past Saturday was my first full day hanging with the group in a while.

While we’re eating dinner, she calls my name and asks me to add 2 new people to the group chat since I’m an admin. We’ve never spoken before this. She seems quiet and nervous. After adding the new people, she turns back to the rest of the group and is being loud/joking around.

After dinner, we have a game night. To everyone else, she’d hug them and joke with them, but with me, she’d try to make me the bad guy or attack me depending on what game we were playing. She also knows a lot about me, including personal things that I’ve never told her. Could she be stalking me online or gathering information from the other friends? Does she treat me differently because she’s interested?

She’s loud around others, but quiet around me. Is it because we barely know each other or could she like me?
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