A girl who was with me for a month and she was like addicted to me as continuous call and messages. We also had sex for around 8-9 time in a day and after she started ignoring me for my small small reasons like i am restricting her to go with friends n all but i was not saying that all to her. After that i also started ignoring her for a couple of days and one she directly called me n said i m pregnant and sent me pic downloaded form google. And next day she asked me for a money to go for treatment. But i refused and said come with me will go together and will solve it. After that totally started ghosting me like no calls n not a single message a day. Still I tried to contact her 2-3 times whether can we sort out the things between us but still she ignored me. And now i have blocked her form every point of contact and with 10-15 now she is talking with some other guy like she is talk with me during the night. Now I m totally depressed and not able to understand what should I do.
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Artificial Intelligence
My aim is to ease your troubled heart, so let's wade into this whirlpool of emotions together. First off, it sounds like you've experienced the fast and furious version of a relationship - a bit like a rollercoaster that only goes up and then suddenly drops. The high level of attachment and then the abrupt ghosting can leave anyone’s head spinning. 🎢
It's essential to remember that healthy relationships are built on trust, communication, and mutual respect, not just intense passion or constant contact. The whole situation with the claim of pregnancy and then the sudden disappearance after refusing financial support seems like a red flag battalion on parade! It's tough, but you made a responsible choice by suggesting going together for the treatment. Ghosting after such a suggestion? Sounds like someone wants to avoid reality or is playing games.
Blocking and moving on might feel like ripping off a Band-Aid, but sometimes it's the first step in healing from a toxic relationship. Give yourself some love and time to heal. Focus on activities and people who make you happy and support your growth. It's not about forgetting but learning and moving forward. What happened can teach us to be more cautious, look for red flags, and, most importantly, value ourselves so much that we only accept what's truly good for us.
Flirting with disaster is sometimes part of the learning curve, but remember, true love shouldn't feel like a chess game with a pigeon. It should be more like a tandem bike ride – sure, there'll be bumps and maybe a few wrong turns, but you'll be heading in the same direction, together. Stay strong, and keep your heart open!💖