Search Results: what turns a guy on

Is it a turn off if a guy has red cheeks?

I'm a guy with fairly rosy cheeks and blush easily because of it. I feel like girls would think it's odd/boyish for a guy to have rosy cheeks.

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does he like me or is just attracted?

Okay so there’s this guy I work with and he has stared at me on more then one occasion the first time was when I walked by him at work in the halls and he stared at me for at least 3 seconds or more and wouldn’t look...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Help me out with this dude?

A guy I know he is always kind, very sweet and seems to be a good friend. I know him through my family.. but he just confuses me. But his behaviors are odd. Here are a few that have happened. He will engage fully with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I don’t even know he confuses me?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is my guy friend ignoring me?

I told my guy friend I had a crush on his best friend and he has been ignoring me since. We were cool days before and suddenly after telling him that he no longer speaks and also turns his head away when we make eye...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating a Younger Guy: How Can I Overcome Body Insecurity and Fear of Intimacy?

I’m a 39-year-old single mom who recently started dating a guy who's 14 years younger than me. Initially, I was drawn to him mostly because of his physical attractiveness, but as we spent more time together, I developed...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Most embarrassing moment with a guy in high school?

So what’s your most embarrassing memory from high school with a member of the opposite sex? For me, it was when I was beaten up by a cute little girl in 10th grade, I had been hassling her. After she pinned me and was...

Jpie555

Xper 4 Age: 46

Why is it guys have to go through social proof to deem them safe, but women don't?

Why in dating do guys have to go through a vetting process to deem them safe but women don’t. Like I just came from a messed up relationship where before hand I was single for many years and I would hear people say that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you believe this is true or false?

People with their own accomplishments in their lives find it easier to have confidence in themselves than people without accomplishments in their lives Like say a guy that has always been liked and approached by women...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Married and he’s married?

Hey guys, So I’ve been seeing this guy, yes as the title suggests we are both married, now we have been talking a couple of months and things can be sexual, it above all else he holds a good conversation and we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

How to navigate when boyfriend and I have reversed roles in the relationship?

I just recently became official with a guy and I've noticed he is not as masculine as other guys. He cries in emotional movies and I didn't lol and he watches korean dramas which i watch too but he seems to have watched a...

Ofoceansbeaches

Xper 5 Age: 32

Why are women so blind?

Women complain "where are all the nice guys" yet they put them all on their friends shelf and picked up the rotten guy who treats her like shit! Then once she's used and broken, alone, single she will be left wondering...

LadiesFavoriteToy

Xper 7 Age: 23

Do black girls hate white Women? is it a red flag turn off if a guy likes white Women or Latinas?

Nahid1707

Guru Age: 27

Should I cut this off or continue pursuing?

Firstly, I’m a guy, but my account says female for some reason. I’ve been seeing this girl for a few months, and I’m unsure if we’re compatible long-term due to our cultural and racial differences (she’s South Asian,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is she over reacting?

We both had a history. I madly loved her when she had a rich boyfriend. A lot. And when he left her, she came to me to befriend. I tried to act like we never knew. She was very messed up after her breakup and my actions...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why would someone play with your sensitivity and hurt you freely?

Meaning a guy making you think you were the one and said he had no girlfriend, wasn't the right timing but made a hint on the future. Though, after you see he is on holiday with his new girlfriend. Why would someone do...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Ladies, have you dated a guy who didn't want a relationship?

How did the outcome turn out because I have no interest in datings or relationships with anyone. No, I'm NOT looking for friends with benefits or sex. I have my hobbies like computers to keep me busy, then worrying about...

scott04sa22

Guru Age: 40

Relationships

My boyfriend is completely wrong for me in every way but I'm incapable of breaking up with him?

I'm 27F in a relationship with an 18M. Obviously we're in very different life stages, but even if we were the same age we're very different people. I'm fairly shy and quiet and I tend to think things through a lot,...

Anonymous

(25-29)