Why are women so blind?

[LadiesFavoriteToy]

Women complain "where are all the nice guys" yet they put them all on their friends shelf and picked up the rotten guy who treats her like shit! Then once she's used and broken, alone, single she will be left wondering and realize how she was so blind to turn down his genuine love for her. That young man who was kind gentle, empathetic, funny and fun has moved on to merry a girl with young kids in a happy home.

Why are women so blind?

[Kelley1]

That is not how it is. They are not rotten guys. Since guys date down for sex but marry equals, it only means she is okay for sex but she is not relationship material. The mistake girls make is they believe they can have relationships with the hottest guys that will f**k them and reject guys within their league that would gladly marry them if only giving a chance.

[Kelley1]

Your problem is that you resent that girls out of your league will not give you the time of day. It would be best if you settled for a big girl.

[LadiesFavoriteToy]

No I do not resent girls. It's called having standards and sharing what we have in common... I could never settle for a big girl who wanted to hit a fast food place every time she was hungry. Because YES I WAS 270 pounds and now 200 so... you see...

[Kelley1]

Even so, most young women believe they deserve the hottest guys that will f**k them. In any event, they have unrealistic standards. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sZYXtHAiMoA&t=298s

[RavVid]

Hoe_math on youtube explains it very well. He gives an example of a girl asking him how she could become exclusive with her guy who had 5 other chicks. He asked if she demanded exclusivity what would he do? Get rid of me. He further asked would she rather be exclusve wth him or the sixth chick with this guy. Sixth chick.

Pyschacks on youtube explains it as they want those good guy qualities but in a hot guy package.

[Kelley1]

Re: "they (women) want those good guy qualities but in a hot guy package."

Regardless, of the fact that many women say "Looks don't matter," that is exactly how is with most young women. I believe that by the time they reach age 30, women will realize that they need to lower their expectations. Regardless, even at age 30, when women are educated with higher incomes, that may raise their standards to exclude men with less education and lower incomes.

However, as explained by Rebecca Lynn Pope, the men such women want, don't want them: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aExBbOv1Dro

[RavVid]

@Kelley1 Rebecca also puts it well and very accurately. It doesn't matter to a wealthy man how much money a wife has and he won't get status in most cases from his his wife.

I like to put it as irrespective of what a woman has done/or achieved she is on the same level playing field as a broke waitress. Of the attracted women I have been most attracted to in the last 3 months, one was a female barista and the other a paralegal. I was attracted because both seemed to be kind and caring.

Equally every woman's vagina is on a level playing field if I haven't been in it yet. A fresh vagina is more important than everything else a woman has. For a longer a term, it does matter how her body feels under me but not for one night.

Hoe_math divides women into Keepers, Sleepers and Sweepers. Sweepers are the ones you don't want to be seen with but, hey , you hadn't been in their vagina at the time. Sleepers are good enough to have regular sex with and maybe be seen in public with but are never going to be good enough for a relationship. Keepers are exactly that, you give them children.

None of this is rocket science which in itself is the very simple F=MA. A vagina has an exclusivity value... or not as the case might be.

At 19 you are very well grounded, I must say.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I didn't meet blind women yet, I met one in wheelchair though, she was cool, yes !

[LadiesFavoriteToy]

People in wheel chairs are cool... look at jerryrigeverything on youtube he married a girl in a wheel chair and now have kids. He met her on a dating site but when she said something about being in a wheel chair he did not care and went out on a date.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

A very sane reaction from the guy I say :)

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Because generally those guys who claim to be nice guys really aren't which is why they got passed over in the first place. Sure one or two may slip by but for the most part those kind of guys are only nice because they want sex from the girl in question.

[BarryLiverstone]

Because your definition of a nice guy is not the same as hers

[Agape93]

Ah the classic incel logic.

[Agape93]

Most guys who claim to be nice guys, are definitively not nice guys. And even if a guy is genuinely nice, he may not be appealing to her for whatever reason.

And if we date a piece of shit, that's called a learning experience and a trauma bond.

[Redstang88]

“Why” implies some degree of sense or logic