Why are some women so oblivious?

[Anonymous]

Asked her out two months ago after she got out of relationship. I thought I had a good shot, but got rejected. I moved on, never looked at her again. She asked for friendship, I walked away.

Been ignoring her post online, she’s been keeping up with mine. I ignore her in person, she still stares. Now she’ll drop comments online on my posts.

is she that oblivious? Like how more obvious can I make it that I don’t want to talk to her.

[Yolandi]

It might be that she wasn’t ready at the time since she just got out of a relationship (emotionally available, which I think you can understand)

The comments she is leaving are definitely there to entertain the idea and *maybe* she is finally getting over her ex and ready to put herself out there again.

If you are not interested then don’t engage, she will back off.

[Asker]

How can I play it safe and see how it goes? I got rejected back then and I don’t want to fall again

[Yolandi]

But do you want to talk to her? I feel like you can either hit her up or give her the same energy and maybe wait until she comes to you? You can’t have someone reject you twice you know

[Pinay_ako]

Just be upfront with her and move on! Ignoring her will not make her go away! She thinks you’re playing games and she wants to play too.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I just answered a question about chicks thinking they're a 9 when they're a 4. That gender just sees the bright side no matter what... favorable judgments and whatnot.

[inhua]

she's upset at the rules that she set in the first place

[Asker]

By that do you mean she’s upset that I don’t want to be her friend?

[inhua]

no she's upset you don't want to be more than just friends with her even though she made it clear in the beginning that she wanted you as a friend

[slatyb]

You can't control her behavior. If she's not intrusive, then just forget about it.

[Anonymous]

Ha!

And you are calling her oblivious. 🤣

[Blueeyes81]

she's playing games. If you engage expect more games to come. Count yourself lucky.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

women... she is playing games, stay away from her

[mommymommymommy]

They can be just as oblivious as us men