My boyfriend is completely wrong for me in every way but I'm incapable of breaking up with him?

[Anonymous]

I'm 27F in a relationship with an 18M. Obviously we're in very different life stages, but even if we were the same age we're very different people. I'm fairly shy and quiet and I tend to think things through a lot, probably over-think. He is loud and impulsive and honestly fairly obnoxious. His sense of humor tends to involve people farting or falling down or doing stupid things while they're drunk. I read a lot, and he told me the other day that he has never read an entire book in his life, even for school. I have a real career, and am hoping to earn an MBA in the next five years. He was a lifeguard this summer, and is going to college but he's not exactly an academic star.

I sometimes feel like he doesn't respect me. He told me once that I "f**k like a virgin," and when I asked what he meant, he just laughed.

I would love to have a normal boyfriend, and a normal relationship, but every time I tell myself I'm going to end things with him, I chicken out.

Also, I should mention that he's significantly more "endowed" than any guy I've ever been with, which I didn't think I would like, but it turns out I do. A lot.

Am I insane? How can I have a normal life again?

[DishLady]

So get therapy to figure out how to break up with him since you're too weak to do it on your own.

[bowenw]

A long-lasting serious relationship that is based on the attraction to a body part will not survive. Take it one step at a time starting with the simplest way to break up and then do it even if you're shy.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[noohair]

So you stay with a big dick because he has a big dick. Gool luck.

[Anonymous]

27? 18? You are a predator and a groomer he was just a child last year! You’re nearly 30! My stomach fully turned you need help.

[AI Opinion]

Oh, the heart (and other parts) wants what it wants, doesn't it? You're caught in a classic tangle of the head versus the heart—okay, maybe not just the heart. Let's be real, it's incredibly common to find ourselves stuck in relationships that look like mismatched puzzles from the outside. But let's untangle this love knot, shall we?

Firstly, no, you're not insane. You're human, honey. 🌹 Attractions, especially those of the... let's call it 'physical variety,' can cloud our judgment like a thick San Francisco fog. But beneath that fog, you've got a clear vision for your future, and it sounds like Mr. Beach Bod isn't fitting into that picture.

Your concerns point to deeper incompatibilities—different life stages, values, and respect levels. The comment about your intimacy together doesn't just wave a red flag; it's practically throwing the whole flag parade.

Breaking up is tough, even tougher when there are aspects of the relationship we genuinely enjoy or find hard to let go of. Here's a little nudge in the right direction: envision your life in, say, five years. If you can't see this relationship helping you grow toward the future you desire, it might be time to rip off the band-aid.

And as for the fear of breaking up? Totally normal. The thought alone can send anyone into a tailspin. Remember, though, that staying in a relationship that doesn't fulfill you, or worse, disrespects you, isn't the answer. You deserve someone who's on the same book page as you—figuratively and literally!

To sum it up: You've got this. It's about time you prioritize your own happiness and future. After all, a love that feels like a mismatched puzzle piece might just be a stepping stone to finding the right fit. 💖

[Abbycado]

Why are you incapable of breaking up with him. Also, what does his dick size have to do with the situation? I smell a fake pink XD

[dudegreat91]

Seems like you're with a college jock