Don’t know how to breakup with my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

It’s been dawning me to just call it quits but I’m always sad around him barely talk to him there’s no romance no spark it’s just him doing his thing and me doing mine. We been together for a long time I listened to his voicemail from a couple years ago and his tone and demeanor is so different now. Definitely not the same person since I cried listening to it. I just don’t know how and what to do especially we have a child between us it’s hard for me to phantom alone breaking up but I’m just not happy I can’t bring myself up to just go with it cause I’m not that kind of person. I just need help/advice. Thanks

[Anonymous]

You're unhappy in your long-term relationship, the spark is gone, and your partner has changed. You have a child together, making it more complicated. First, clarify why you want to break up. Then, plan a calm conversation where you clearly state your decision, focusing on your feelings. Be prepared for his reaction. Crucially, prioritize creating a co-parenting plan for your child, ideally with a mediator. Lean on your support system, and take care of yourself. It's hard, but necessary for your well-being and your child's.

[molonski2]

Your child brings a new dimension into the relationship , you are definitely moving apart and in different circles and I don't think either of you are happy. For the sake of your child however , you need to try some counselling.

I had a different answer prior to reading the main body of your question , see if something can be saved in this circumstance.

[Nikki1989]

You're recognizing a significant change in your partner, mourning the loss of what you once had, and grappling with the immense challenge of potentially ending a long-term relationship, especially with a child involved. Sorry to say this, but this is a common experience with dealing with men.

[LiamS95]

With I could help but not sure how without knowing more. Usually there is an underlying reason for the change in him, fo you think there's a chance he's interested in someone else or possibly cheating on you. That would mske it easy gorvyou to mske the break.

[thinkerx]

Talk to hım seriously tell how you feel

[Anonymous]

You must be honest with him.

[MasterKS]

be straight forward!