I want to break up with my boyfriend in the most polite and respectful way. I asked him if we can meet to talk and I think that he thinks that this is a date… At first, I was thinking about treating him to a nice dinner, but it would take too long and it could be really awkward. Considering the wait time and the time for you to get the food, we might have to wait an hour. I don’t want him to think that we’re just having a date (give him false hope?) when I’m about to break up with him after he’s done eating. So then, I thought of breaking up with him at a cafe… but our schedules won’t really allow that to happen. He works on the week days while I work on the weekends (I’m a university student and he’s not) and I don’t think I can get off early enough for us to meet at a cafe. So what should I do? </3
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I'd try to drop a few hints ahead of time. Maybe say, 'I'm not in the mood for dinner, and I also don't want you to spend too much money'. How long have you been dating him?
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wait til the next time you hangout, dont matter where. and just straight up tell him. i feel like men respond better to it that way. the stuff you were saying is way extra and kinda weird.
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Only tell him, the reason, and say sorry, we can't go anymore
Send him this GAG question link and tell him you are the poster.
Just talk to him and tell him the truth
Don't put a horse head in his bed
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