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Just wondering how common this is to come up with a girl you’ve been seeing because as someone who has very little experience with dating and has never been in a relationship, I would never bring it up and I’ve always dreaded a girl bringing that up because she’ll probably get turned off by the fact that I’m so inexperienced at an older age.

I’m almost 29 and have never had a girlfriend or dated. At this point, I just feel like its gonna be a repeating cycle of going on dates, only to get rejected once a girl finds out how inexperienced I am. So I was asking this because I was wondering if this has happened to any guys on here who are or were inexperienced at an older age, or if their inexperience gave them no issues with dating.

So technically I’m about to turn 29, but close enough. But I’ve never had a girlfriend or dated (I’ve only been on 1 date 7 years ago) I’m not a virgin because me and the girl I went out with on that one date a long time ago hooked up at the end of the night, but I haven’t had sex at all since then. I just have a feeling that at this point, its gonna be really hard for me to date or get into a relationship because of the fact that I have so little experience at such a late age. I feel like its gonna be a repeating cycle of going out on dates (if I can even get any in the first place) only to be rejected once a girl finds out how inexperienced I am. And I doubt any girls in my age group want or are expecting to be a guy’s first girlfriend.

I had a relationship with this girl years ago when I was a teenager. I liked this girl a lot but I never got chance to tell her how I felt about her before it was too late. She said she wanted to end our relationship and that we could be friends, she never gave me a reason why even though I asked. I think she mistook my affection for ‘needyness’ which must’ve killed her attraction for me or maybe it was because I was shit at sex as I was only young at the time and inexperienced, however this is only speculation as she never actually told me this. As I said many years have passed since I last spoke to her, I deleted her off all socials apart from Instagram because I simply didn’t want to see her name and what she was doing etc so do you think enough time has passed that I could message her again and maybe start a relationship again as it’s almost been 5 years. The only thing that’s stoping me is that I’m not as confident as I was 5 years ago and I don’t want that to kill my chances with her. However I’m more mature and humble now and I can still tap into that confidence it just depends on the situation, basically I’m not confident 24 7 like I was back then. Should I add her Snapchat again or find her number and message her? Im keeping my expectations low of course.

A girl I know has been exhibiting affection and interest in me for months now. I am shy, she is shy, we're both romantically inexperienced.

So I made a motivational poem for her from scratch; designing both the front and the banner. It doesn't mention her looks, it celebrates her personality. I just hope it doesn't ruin what we have. I'm worried how she will take it.