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I'm looking to buy my first car and I was thinking about getting something to give off a sort of bachelor vibe but refined. My dream is to be sorta like roger smith from the big O.

Now I can pull of the suit because the few times I have gotten dressed up are the few times I have been flirted with. I'm thin so I look great in dress pants and a button down with a vest (obviously I landed two jobs 😂). But the problem is his car

I'm young and low on funds so I can't afford some high end vehicle (I wouldn't have to write this question either) but in my search for cheap reliable cars I remembered that crown vics are always cheap sincd the po-po drive them.

So would the girls think the car is cool or creepy? I mean I would be driving this shit everyday to work and home but I can totally see myself putting on a suit and tie and looking badass when I get my car... to an extent... if I don't look creepy. What are your thoughts? Should i go for it or stick with this mazda I've been looking at? Thanks

I truly believe most people who talk like this are trying to cover something. Basic logic tells us that humans are social creatures and we naturally conform into a society. If you're ostracized by society, then it's going to significantly impact your life in a negative way. Human's who don't have a social life suffer from depression and some even go insane in periods of long term isolation. So of course we care what others think to an extent. That's in no way an admission to insecurity. Why do people need to go out of their way to say these things such as they don't give a shit about the acceptance of others?

Or I saw a question asking if people are afraid of death. Almost half of the people said that they're not afraid of death. Dude, I'm calling bullshit. I'm a ghetto street cop and my heart was pounding every time I had to pull out my weapon. All of my friends in the Marine Corps told me their first experience in combat, and it was all same story of them telling me that they were about to shit their pants. My best friend who's a firefighter tells me he practically shits his pants on some of the calls he goes on too. When I found out I had cancer, my heart literally stopped and I was emotionally numb for a good week. That's all scary shit. Even people who take their own lives are scared. You're telling me that your very existence on this planet being taken away does not evoke any emotion of fear? Bullshit. Are people trying act like they're tough by saying this?

I know there's a lot of other examples, but I guess you get the gist of what I'm getting at. It's like they're trying so hard to come across as confident or strong, that it pushes past the limits of what's actually rational.