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So there's a lot of misunderstanding between me and this guy. Began pretty much as soon as he asked me out--w which as quite a while ago. It didn't work out because i wasn't ready , which is ok we could've just put a pin in it, but i did an awful job of communicating and i left with him thinking--well many different things not much of it good. Anyhow , years later we've been spending lots of time together and im not sure if we are working on re building friendship or were still into each other. I know attraction is still there, and we both try to be alone with each other on occasion but where we used to be direct we are now secretive so hard to know whats up. So, i dont know if he's trying or has moved on and i can't decide which direction i want to go in without hearing from him. Plus i was thinking some explanation would be good. I still feel weird about how things went down.

Anyhow i decided id have a talk with him, and i went to see if he's cool with that and he lost it for a few seconds. I'd say he got mad but i think he must have already been mad. Im ok with that i mean entitled to bis feelings, but he's said nothing to me about it. i dont mind him being angry, but really, to not tell me about it and just flipped out.

now, here's the other part. if wed never spoke again id think ok he's mad bc i was a jerk-though unintentionally- and of course he do sen want to talk. Weve been hanging out and he's asked me to hang out and I've been making an effort as well, so it doesn't make sense for him to be mad. And, I don't know if i even want to try taking to him. Its just rue. I dont have friends who anomy yep because i dont sp end time with people who are rude. have no idea what to do here. He might be a bit bruised from the past or it might be unrelated but that wast even what i was planning on talking about.

What would you do?

My best friend lives with a few other students, one of which is this boy who I get along with fantastically. We met a few months ago when I went up to visit her and I have spent several weeks off and on at their house, so we've had the chance to really get to know each other. He makes me laugh constantly and we can talk about games or movies, etc for hours.

One of the first times I stayed there, he invited me to watch a movie in his room and we ended up spending the night together, although we only fooled around and made out and cuddled before eventually sleeping, with me wearing his tshirt (and when i told him I'd probably steal it, he said "go for it.")

We didn't speak about it except for a quick snapchat that I sent of the bruises he had left on me, but the night went really well and I felt super comfortable with him. The next time I was up, I expected to actually hook up with him - and was pretty disappointed when he didn't make any move.

We haven't been snapchatting/texting as much since then, and I was worried, but he's still the same towards me in person, and its running me hot and cold. Sometimes he seems flirty and interested, and then he'll go three days without talking to me.

I'll be moving there after the holidays, so we'll be seeing a lot more of each other, and I do plan to ask him to chill, but I wanted to get some opinions in the meantime.

A mutual friend who also lives there told me that she thinks he's just oblivious, and I do agree that he isn't the kind of guy to fuck and chuck (pardon my language) or to play me, but I'm incredibly confused by his intentions. I know that he hasn't had a girlfriend or even a friends with benefits in at least a year, possibly two, so could he just be shy? I really like this guy, but I also don't want to get played. A one night stand is one thing, but holding my hand and rubbing my back while I fall asleep in your bed is another!