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I get that they have worked for some people but I put that down to sheer luck. Here’s why…

When swiping right, you’re mainly basing it on their looks and if you find them attractive. Occasionally you might be drawn to what they write in their bio or whatever but 95% of the time it’s dependent on attractiveness.

So even when I swipe right on a guy I find attractive and we match, when we start talking I end up not being interested in him after all, or I get bored and I go back to swiping and it’s a never ending cycle.

And quality ones, not just settling. 28F, I’m told I’m attractive but I’ve never had it easy dating. I’ve only ever used dating apps & while they’re trash to me, lots of people had success with them. I’ll add that im very reserved, seems like most good looking women can just go about their day & run into their next SO with no effort. I never get approached, can say I’ve never gotten approached by a man I’d actually want to date. On the dating apps getting matches were never the issue, it’s more fizzling out/ghosting/ the issues you deal with on the apps usually. It makes me question my attractiveness, over the years I’ve said eff it & have gotten better at dealing with it, I’ll never let a man question my confidence like that again bc I know there’s nothing wrong with me. Am I right or are good looking women actually putting in effort?