Am I right to believe that most good looking women find relationships effortlessly?

[Anonymous]

And quality ones, not just settling. 28F, I’m told I’m attractive but I’ve never had it easy dating. I’ve only ever used dating apps & while they’re trash to me, lots of people had success with them. I’ll add that im very reserved, seems like most good looking women can just go about their day & run into their next SO with no effort. I never get approached, can say I’ve never gotten approached by a man I’d actually want to date. On the dating apps getting matches were never the issue, it’s more fizzling out/ghosting/ the issues you deal with on the apps usually. It makes me question my attractiveness, over the years I’ve said eff it & have gotten better at dealing with it, I’ll never let a man question my confidence like that again bc I know there’s nothing wrong with me. Am I right or are good looking women actually putting in effort?

You’re right

You’re wrong

[Billlewis]

I think that not only are women able to find plenty of good looking guys who want to date them, many women also continue to seek out new guys even when they're already in a relationship with a guy. I don't really blame them for this, but I have to admit I'm jealous of them for being able to do that.

[Anonymous]

Most women can find sex easily, not relationships or commitment. But some of them convince themselves that the two are the same and allow it to go to their ego...

[katybaggins]

Possibly for women who are more extroverted it is easy, but quite challenging for introverted ones. I find it difficult to find someone who is interested in more than just my looks and the one guy I had a great interest in didn't reciprocate.

[nolookingbackx]

We find guys who want to use us effortlessly, that's for sure. And it's easy to find someone who wants to be together, but never easy to find someone really decent.

[Nikki1989]

Finding relationships is easy but finding them with good men is a nightmare.