Search Results: late with the first date

Is cutting off more fat a good idea before taking dating or love seriously?

Long story short, I'm 31 and never been in a relationship, besides a few first dates many years ago. I've been obese most of my 20s and this affected how I feel about myself. A big reason for low self-esteem was being...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why does this girl kept ragging on me for dating my ex boyfriend?

My ex and I only dated for three months and it didn’t work out. Well. Nobody felt bad for me because I knew how the guy was. The thing that was messed up was it was a friend’s ex boyfriend. I know, messed up. She dated...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Opinions on cutting more before taking dating seriously?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

He kissed me but he has a girlfriend?

Hey everyone, I need your help and advice — this might be a bit long. There’s a guy from my uni who was my crush for 2–3 years. During that time, we both dated other people. Later he moved to a different city after...

thysbabe

Xper 1 Age: 23

Dating

Guys, Guys If a girlfriend is good to you , Why break up with her?

Over a decade ago, I was dating this guy Jestin we all know him for Jessy. Jessy and I met up at a subway back in 2010 summer yes we had dates on our first date subway and attended the same highschool. I always cooked for...

Flowersareawsome22

Xper 4 Age: 33

Girl's Behavior

Girls, Is this normal behavior of a broken woman that given up on love?

I have this friend who always smiled and laughed at everything I do and say for a year. To the point her boyfriend at the time got mad at her but tried to be friends with me. 1 year later of not talking as often as we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Haven't heard from match in a day?

first day we matched on hinge we taLKed the whole day. i almost lost her because she didn't do coffee dates and i thought dinner was too premature for a first date, but i got her back and she eventually asked if i'm on...

ikonik

Xper 6 Age: 38

Dating

Why did he ghost me?

Went on a date with this guy a little older than me, he seemed nice enough, has his own business so he’s always busy w work. Date goes well, he’s telling me afterward that he’s telling his parents about me, he can’t wait...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Is this normal?

Been talking to a guy for 2 months now, known him for 3 years, everything is going good. My question to guys or female who have been in my position is, is it normal for (John doe) to have a female friend who reaches out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

He ghosted me, went back to his toxic ex, and nearly 2 years later I still feel stuck. How do I move on?

I’m 19F, about to start my second year of college, but I’ve been emotionally stuck since high school. In junior year, a guy I liked was too shy to ask for my number, so he got it through a friend. We clicked quickly, but...

EllieT05

Xper 1 Age: 20

Dating

Why do I feel single with the guy I’m seeing help?

I haven’t dated any guy in a long time. The only guy I dated in my life was a guy that used me for sex and pretend he was my boyfriend but no he called himself single. so I met a guy, and we spent 3 days together. Allday...

Sugar100

Yoda Age: 29

Guy's Behavior

Is he playing game or just not serious? he asked me out then went cold should I still go?

I met this guy while signing a contract. He was there with a talkative friend, but he didn’t say a word. I was sitting there singing quietly. Later, when I got home, he followed me on Instagram and DMed me. He told me...

nsharaf

Xper 5 Age: 23

Dating

How do you find someones ugly side?

One of the nice things about being an average looking guy is you dont have to worry about a girl putting on a fake act and her true self will come around pretty quickly. Always thought it was funny how they treat me like...

red324

Guru Age: 37

Dating

Is it normal for a guy pay for your food on first dates? When should a a girl offer pay for the date?

I need help. I don't know what’s wrong or right to do. so I met a guy 3 days ago. We spent all day together at his house and he ordered food online then next day went out and got breakfast then later that night had...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Is she actually this busy or what?

I've been with my girlfriend for two weeks officially. We dated and talked prior. It was pretty intense at first. We were practically obsessed with each other. After being intimate for the first time a couple weeks ago...

Ice_knight

Xper 5 Age: 30

Dating

Do you think my friends are right about being hypocritical for not wanting to date autistic men and have high standards?

My friends says I’m very hypocritical because I refuse to date autistic men. They told me it’s better if we don’t date neurotypical men and reject them because they won’t understand us and they will hurt us so I’m missing...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Should I end things before they get too serious?

3 months ago I met this guy in one of my classes, When we first started talking we started texting for a few days then he ghosted for around a week. I was chill cause he was only a friend then he came back we spoke for a...

bethrog08

Xper 2 Age: 27

Break Up & Divorce

Ex boyfriend never once said sorry?

So we dated for over a year, he was a drunk/drug addict who at the start said he wanted to do better. Throughout our relationship he hurt me countless times and it was most often associated with his drinking. He ended up...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

He tried to sleep w me first date. Red flag?

So I went on a date w a guy and it was supposed to be grabbing food but I wasn’t hungry so it was a drive but he taken me to this car park spot and we spoke for ages and then he kept trying to hook up w me in his car even...

Brunettexoxo

Xper 5 Age: 25

Dating

Help! How do I get out of the friendzone?

I (f30) went out with a guy recently on a first date. This was our first real interaction with each other outside of small glances and flirty comments in social settings. The night went really great. We laughed, talked,...

Anonymous

(25-29)