I have this friend who always smiled and laughed at everything I do and say for a year. To the point her boyfriend at the time got mad at her but tried to be friends with me. 1 year later of not talking as often as we used to. We are both single. I started flirting with her the first 2 weeks after we meet back up. She didn’t believe me at first. After consistent flirting and affection she started to believe me.
I told her everything that I liked about her in great detail and I told her how I can tell something personal is bothering her but I just don’t know what. I also can tell that she’s used to looking out for others and not having no one to look out for her. That I would be that person.
I took her on a date. We had a great time. She mentioned our next date. Now she’s starting to open up and also be affectionate. She’s very observant at everything I do. Even when I don’t think she notices. She will open up to me and be affectionate and loving. Then the next day she’s not as affectionate/stand off ish. She still interacts with me. But she mentioned how she doesn’t trust any guy. But I can tell she still stays close by me. Just doesn’t want to be bothered but close to me I guess.
is this normal for someone who been through heart break in a relationship and from family members letting you down?
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She lets her guard down when she feels safe but then remembers her past wounds and feels like she needs to protect herself and be guarded again, in case you turn out to be like everyone else and leave her. The best course of action would be to reassure her that she is safe with you and you are not going to leave her and follow it up with action.
This makes a lot of sense. Even after being friends for a while she still can feel this way about someone she knows?
Yes it’s possible
She’s definitely going through some shit
Yea it’s her family. She’s the oldest sibling and trying to help her younger siblings who’s not trying to help themselves. Leaching off of her. Is what she told me
What do u like about her