Is it normal for a guy pay for your food on first dates? When should a a girl offer pay for the date?

[Anonymous]

I need help. I don't know what’s wrong or right to do.
so I met a guy 3 days ago. We spent all day together at his house and he ordered food online then next day went out and got breakfast then later that night had return back so we got dinner. Next day before I leave home and to work we get breakfast.

he been paying for my food and me driving him around as he has no car. When I’m supposed to offer pay for food, I feel guilty some reason I don't know why. In one outing I even didn’t get a drink as I felt bad it would be more money for him.

[Summeroflove]

The thing is NEVER expect it you’re not entitled to it and men who have self respect absolutely hate that. It’s okay to have your own standards and know what you’re looking for. Because no man is entitled to you either. Don’t waste your time or someone else’s but at the same time always offer to split your half of the bill. If you’re feeling generous because you genuinely WANT to pay the bill. Then offer.

[Anonymous]

I'll tell you what the MAJORITY of the women I've dated have always offered to pay from date 1. I have always declined the offer of course. But the offer has always been appreciated.

Don't feel guilty. To any decent guy this isn't much of an issue. Of the 1000 things I might be thinking on a date who pays is at the bottom of the list. I wouldn't be asking her out if I hadn't intended on paying.