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I am really struggling right now with severe depression. I had to go to the hospital last night.

I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend, although I had an online thing with this girl back in 2020. She was perfect at the time. She never had a male friend before me, never dated, never been kissed, and was still a virgin. It completely tore me apart when she rejected me when we met in person the first time.

I ended up having a ton of alcohol last night and almost blacked out. I ended up calling her mom and she was frantically trying to help me over the phone.

The thing is, I am so overcomed by disappointment over that girl. That new guy she is with gets to be her first everything. They are getting married this year. Who knows, they may have decided to get married sooner and are already married. I still talk to her mom, but I am afraid to learn any new details.

I have been rather depressed, stressed, and engulfed in fear over these past several years. It has consumed me and has weighed heavily on my shoulders for a very long time.

I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend before. My wish is to have a woman who has never had her first love before. I seek one that has never formed romantic bonds with guys before me. I seek a woman that has not only never made love with a guy before, but also one that is also a virgin in her heart, meaning she has not been in love with a guy, especially during her youth (like college age or younger).

I found an 18 year old girl like that last year. She was a devout Catholic, sheltered, and was homeschooled her entire life. She never had a male friend before she met me. Sadly, when I went to meet her for the first time in person, she told me I wasn't her type. I was crushed.

Hi everyone, I'm new here, but I need some advice. I'd really appreciate advice from fellow Christians on this. As well, as non-Christians, too. Please be respectful to my faith, is all I ask.
I'm a 35 year old Christian male, I met this woman (31) through a Christian app called Upward, which is a very nice Christian app. We instantly hit it off, and went to snapchat, talked/video chatted every morning and night for around 4-6 hours or more for about four months straight. She was staying with her sister in TN. She's originally from Florida. I live in KY. Fast-forward to June, she left to go see her other sister, and then back down to Florida to empty storage units she had. I don't feel she has ever been a super loving, sweet woman, but when she got back to Florida her personality went from a 6-7 on harsh, to what I feel is like a 8 or 9. As June progressed, I started becoming very stressed about her. My bloodpressure started having bad spikes. She would say she's crying, and having bad dreams about her ex. When she was in TN, she'd always ask me to not leave, and leave the webcam on while she slept. I obliged, and done this A LOT, would just pray or read the Bible for an hour until I was sure she was sound asleep.(Just to be clear, we did no sexual activity together. I'm a virgin, and staying that way until marriage.) Everything I basically said to her as she's in Florida started to be wrong, not right, and this is the conversation, which was the last straw. I could no longer take it, and that night I blocked her, except from my phone. She wasn't able to sleep early morning of this day, and I was working out. I stopped my workout, and helped her talk about her ex for around an hour or two, for she could fall back to sleep. This was that afternoon, when I was exhausted, and wanted to take my shower and then sleep. This is just one conversation. This is the first woman I've ever dated. Is this normal?

Part 1

Guys; which one would you rather have, if these were your only two options?

OPTION A: The strongest support group of friends and family one could ask for, but no woman will ever find you attractive enough to sleep with you (not even prostitutes or escorts), and you'll die a virgin, even if you can somehow convince someone to date you. You will be an ugly virgin but loved.

OPTION B: You're considered 9 out of 10 in looks by everyone (and only not a "10" because objective 10s are impossible) and can sleep with anyone of the compatible gender you want (if you're a straight male, you can get any straight female; if you're a queer male, you can get any queer person you want). However, no one will ever TRULY love you. People will, at best, tolerate you. You can date a large number of willing women as well, but they will never actually love you and will more-or-less just be using you. You will be super smokin'-hot but never loved.